Are you a Pessimist or Optimist?

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Are you a Pessimist or Optimist?

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We worry to much about what other people think.
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From Tony Robbins, motivational speaker,
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I doesn't matter what other people think.
They don't know me or what I've been through.
I WILL enjoy life to the fullest :!:

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I quit worrying about what others think,
because I found out they don't think!
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How about a realist?
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I am an optimist. To be an optimist one has to be pragmatic and accept reality; optimist does not mean fantasist.

In my experience those describing themselves as realists are pessimists in denial.
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I am an engineer, which makes me a professional pessimist.  To have joined the engineering profession in the first place I must have been a näive optimist.
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I am an optimist, but pragmatic. Due to my previous work training I look for what could go wrong to be prepared for evasive action.
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Midas wrote: Tue Feb 28, 2023 2:14 pm I am an optimist. To be an optimist one has to be pragmatic and accept reality; optimist does not mean fantasist.

In my experience those describing themselves as realists are pessimists in denial.
Being optimistic simply means having a positive outlook on the world. That's it. It has nothing to do with pragmatism or accepting reality as it is.
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pelmut wrote: Tue Feb 28, 2023 11:14 pm I am an engineer, which makes me a professional pessimist. 
I am an Architect, thus an optimist and am familiar with the disposition of engineers :)
You must be an optimist to wear a skirt though.
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denimini wrote: Wed Mar 01, 2023 10:42 am
pelmut wrote: Tue Feb 28, 2023 11:14 pm I am an engineer, which makes me a professional pessimist. 
I am an Architect, thus an optimist and am familiar with the disposition of engineers :)
Anyone who has to work with an optimist will become a pessimist.
You must be an optimist to wear a skirt though.
Not really.  At every stage of experimenting with skirts I made sure I had a get-out in case things went wrong.  Even though I now wear skirts most of the time I still keep spare clothing handy in case the elastic snaps or my skirt gets torn or soaked.
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Cautiously optimistic. My optimism is tempered by a realistic streak.
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Depending on my mood I'm either an optimistic pessimist or a pessimistic optimist.
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An optimist. I always find a way
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Mild pessimist. It helps me from getting unhappy when things go wrong (as they usually do, from experience).
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crfriend wrote: Fri Mar 10, 2023 11:38 pm ................. when things go wrong (as they usually do, from experience).
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"Or" -- an incredibly dangerous word; as normally used it implies either/or with no alternatives -- language as dangerous as a loaded gun to stifle thinking.
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