Skirt Cafe is an on-line community dedicated to exploring, promoting and advocating skirts and kilts as a fashion choice for men, formerly known as men in skirts. We do this in the context of men's fashion freedom --- an expansion of choices beyond those commonly available for men to include kilts, skirts and other garments. We recognize a diversity of styles our members feel comfortable wearing, and do not exclude any potential choices. Continuing dialog on gender is encouraged in the context of fashion freedom for men. See here for more details.
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From Tony Robbins, motivational speaker,
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I doesn't matter what other people think.
They don't know me or what I've been through.
I WILL enjoy life to the fullest
Uncle Al
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Kilted Organist/Musician
Grand Musician of the Grand Lodge, I.O.O.F. of Texas 2008-2025
When asked 'Why the Kilt?'
I respond-The why is F.T.H.O.I. (For The H--- Of It)
I quit worrying about what others think,
because I found out they don't think!
"It is better to be hated for what you are than be loved for what you are not" Andre Gide: 1869 - 1951 Always be yourself because the people that matter don’t mind and the ones that mind don’t matter.
I am an engineer, which makes me a professional pessimist. To have joined the engineering profession in the first place I must have been a näive optimist.
There is no such thing as a normal person, only someone you don't know very well yet.
Midas wrote: ↑Tue Feb 28, 2023 2:14 pm
I am an optimist. To be an optimist one has to be pragmatic and accept reality; optimist does not mean fantasist.
In my experience those describing themselves as realists are pessimists in denial.
Being optimistic simply means having a positive outlook on the world. That's it. It has nothing to do with pragmatism or accepting reality as it is.
pelmut wrote: ↑Tue Feb 28, 2023 11:14 pm
I am an engineer, which makes me a professional pessimist.
I am an Architect, thus an optimist and am familiar with the disposition of engineers
Anyone who has to work with an optimist will become a pessimist.
You must be an optimist to wear a skirt though.
Not really. At every stage of experimenting with skirts I made sure I had a get-out in case things went wrong. Even though I now wear skirts most of the time I still keep spare clothing handy in case the elastic snaps or my skirt gets torn or soaked.
There is no such thing as a normal person, only someone you don't know very well yet.
"Or" -- an incredibly dangerous word; as normally used it implies either/or with no alternatives -- language as dangerous as a loaded gun to stifle thinking.