Well, I had my experience at the neighbors house. I can say with certainty that their lifestyle is fine for them but not at all interesting to me. I let her tie me up on a sofa. I got the whole deal. Hogtie, blindfold and gag. The gag was the real problem. From the time she said, Ok you're set, to the time she undid me 3 hours later I was screaming mummpphpmum at the top of my lungs which translated to "Get this sh** the H*** off me NOW!! But since gags do what they are supposed to do, no one could "seemingly" understand that I wasn't at all enjoying my experience and wanted OUT in the worst possible way. I think she knew I didn't like it, as when she finally undid me she undid my feet first, then elbows, knees, thighs, blindfold and finally hands so I could grab and jerk out that da*n gag.
As soon as I was free I was out the door with an "I now know for sure that what you folks like is not what I like." Thanks, bye!

It took me about a day for all the "ligature marks" to disappear. (I learned "ligature marks" on "True Crime Story" on TV)
She keeps her husband bound in one way or another 24/7...a real masochist I guess. I'm too old for that krap.