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General discussion of skirt and kilt-based fashion for men, and stuff that goes with skirts and kilts.
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When it comes down to patterns versus solids,
I use a patterned top(shirt) and solid bottom(skirt/trousers).
When I wear a tartan pattern kilt, I always wear a solid color shirt.
What is a real turn off is vertical stripes on a shirt with horizontal
stripes on a skirt. :wall:

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Uncle Al wrote: Mon Mar 09, 2026 9:02 pm When it comes down to patterns versus solids,
I use a patterned top(shirt) and solid bottom(skirt/trousers).
When I wear a tartan pattern kilt, I always wear a solid color shirt.
What is a real turn off is vertical stripes on a shirt with horizontal
stripes on a skirt. :wall:

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Grok wrote: Mon Mar 09, 2026 6:25 pm
robehickman wrote: Mon Mar 09, 2026 5:42 pm
Not everything she says will work on men due to different body proportions, but the general ideas work.
Color theory would be an example of something that could be used by anybody. Also, guidelines regarding the use of different patterns in the same outfit.
Yes. Something that I've noticed often makes a man wearing a skirt look odd, is if the bottom is too bright in relation to the top. It draws the viewers eye down too much.

In general, the skirts that I've noticed look the most natural on men are black / in other dark colours, and are not visually fussy.Basically they are not designed to pull the viewer's eye. The natural visual focus of the male body is generally the shoulders, drawing the eye elsewhere tends to look odd.

Bright / highly pattered bottoms should be paired with equally bright or pattered top garments. One piece 'dresses' in a uniform fabric also solve that problem.

In historic menswear that includes skirts, such as Tudor doublets, the whole garment is designed to work harmoniously with itself.

Also, I think that the main reason skirts on men tend to look odd are because men do not know how to choose appropriate garments, or style them in ways that work, not anything inherent in skirts as a semantic concept. Direct copying of female styles almost never works due to body shape differences.
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Most of my outfits have the main colour/pattern thing as the skirt. I have done some with colour in the top and tights, when wearing a black skirt, but I am not really into patterned tops. I used to wear a lot of tops with logos, witty phrases or other stuff on them, but as I have got older, I just want to be me and not shout at the world with what is on my chest. Hence I mainly wear plain tops with a lot of them being white or black.

I now think the skirt is the main thing in my style and look, with my hat, top, legs and feet playing accompanying roles.

I am very happy to try new things a learn however I don't appear to be following the above rule?
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One guideline I have seen mentioned...if using more than one pattern in an outfit, have one pattern smaller than the other. Considerably smaller. So one pattern is dominant in the overall look.
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Sock lengths listed/described.
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Uncle Al wrote: Mon Mar 09, 2026 9:02 pm When it comes down to patterns versus solids,
I use a patterned top(shirt) and solid bottom(skirt/trousers).
When I wear a tartan pattern kilt, I always wear a solid color shirt.
Mouse wrote: Tue Mar 10, 2026 12:30 pm Most of my outfits have the main colour/pattern thing as the skirt. I have done some with colour in the top and tights, when wearing a black skirt, but I am not really into patterned tops. I used to wear a lot of tops with logos, witty phrases or other stuff on them, but as I have got older, I just want to be me and not shout at the world with what is on my chest. Hence I mainly wear plain tops with a lot of them being white or black.
I now think the skirt is the main thing in my style and look, with my hat, top, legs and feet playing accompanying roles.
Both Uncle Al and Mouse show that the visual aesthetics of having half patterned and the other half plain is the optimum as it draws the attention to the patterned item, if the whole outfit was patterned then some of the attention would be lost.
As for which way round is very much the choice of the wearer but at present the public at large normally expects men to have plain bottom outfits (unless its a kilt of course) so we must expect to be noticed when bold enough to deviate from this.

robehickman wrote: Tue Mar 10, 2026 10:59 am In general, the skirts that I've noticed look the most natural on men are black / in other dark colours, and are not visually fussy.Basically they are not designed to pull the viewer's eye. The natural visual focus of the male body is generally the shoulders, drawing the eye elsewhere tends to look odd.
This is due in part to the fact that the public at large is only used to seeing men in rather boring trousers in drab colours so by keeping the skirt in a more subdued colour scheme is less of a surprise and is therefore less likely to gain as much attention and probably even invisible (seen as shorts) to some of the general public so completely uninteresting.
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I have worn a scarlett Macabi, with ordinary male drab above. This led to the concept of a peacock tail. Consider a skirt as an alternative focal point, the main focal point, the focus of your rig. :idea:
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I always pair a pattern or bright color, yellow, pink etc. with a contrasting color. Pink mid pull on skirt with a white boar neck top or similar.
A an animal print bubble skit with a black top.
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YouTube videos tend to focus on suit jackets, blazers, and sport jackets/sport coats.

Introducing the safari jacket.
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yardstick wrote: Tue Mar 10, 2026 10:32 pm This is due in part to the fact that the public at large is only used to seeing men in rather boring trousers in drab colours so by keeping the skirt in a more subdued colour scheme is less of a surprise and is therefore less likely to gain as much attention and probably even invisible (seen as shorts) to some of the general public so completely uninteresting.
However, with regards to getting to a place where skirts (semantic concept) are viewed as normal for everyone, this observation is highly valuable. It is an option that can be executed and which most people will not react to.

I also believe, though, that drawing attention to the hips and legs on a male is undesirable due to innate instinctual (genetic / evolutionary) factors in human perception, Wide hips is not a desirable feature of a male body. The innate visual focus of the average male body is the wide shoulders, and drawing the eye elsewhere too strongly is problematic.
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If we go by a man's traditional suit, the primary visual focus is the chest, framed by the shoulders/upper arms. The lapels of the suit jacket frame an area of dress shirt, drawing the eye. This area includes the tie, the primary ornament of a suit.

BTW, a style of necklace seems to be gaining traction with men. Typically a simple metal chain, looping down in front to about the same altitude as a tie. There could be a similar effect with a pendant style necklace, if about the same length. Longer lengths would tend to draw the eye towards the belly. A choker would draw attention towards the base of the neck.

Secondary visual focus-wrist (a watch), or wrists (cuff links). Regarding rings, I have seen a suggested number of two-wedding band, signet ring. In my observation more rings tend to look "busy."
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An additional piece of jewelry, a lapel pin, tends to draw the eye to chest level. Typically, one lapel pin is worn, creating an asymmetry.

BTW, asymmetry can work for both lapel pins and watches. A lapel pin is relatively small for an ornament. A watch can work alone because of its function as a gadget.

Another possible visual focus is the ankles/feet. With girls/women this can be achieved with fancy shoes and fancy/ruffly/frilly socks. Also, ankle bracelets/anklets. I'm not sure that you want other people to focus on your feet.

Moving back upwards....

I am thinking that bracelets might draw too much attention to a secondary visual focus. Cuff links work because they are relatively small for ornaments. A wrist watch is okay due to its function as a gadget.

Further up....

Ear rings would draw attention to the face.

Hats draw attention to the top of the head. A hat is larger than anything else I have mentioned, so I have started to think in terms of a skirt-and-hat rig.
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Grok wrote: Wed Mar 11, 2026 4:14 pm.....
........Further up....

Ear rings would draw attention to the face.

Hats draw attention to the top of the head. A hat is larger than anything else I have mentioned, so I have started to think in terms of a skirt-and-hat rig.
You may be on to something......IMHO..... :) :hide:
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I don't know about ventilated shoes, but I believe that a T-strap shoe could look good on a man. Check out the shoes at 4:55.

Something that I think could go well with a skirted rig.
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