Barleymower wrote: ↑Sun Mar 30, 2025 3:59 pm
That and the cast iron belief that anything remotely feminine has no place on a man.
I still don't think it has to do with femininity on men, rather just that skirts aren't being considered. There are feminine men everywhere, and they express that femininity in many different ways, sometimes without even wearing feminine clothing at all. In fact, I'd argue that some level of femininity is present in all men.
Femininity, after all, being basically defined as having or expressing certain attributes commonly associated with the female sex. That in of itself is somewhat arbitrary. After all, it's not like the worlds women are completely homogeneous, just as it is with men. Rather, I would figure that what defines "feminine" might be attributed to the old 80/20 rule, same goes for masculinity.
Femininity might define what could be considered 80% of a given woman's character, and thus 80% of women would exhibit this. Still, within that 80% of women, 20% of their characteristics might be considered masculine. And when defining what exactly is masculinity, we apply the same rule vice versa.
But this isn't a hard fast rule (hell, it's not even a rule, I'm just posting my own opinion on the matter). I consider myself to be more along the line of maybe 70/30, or even closer to 60/40 depending on my given mood [masculine/feminine]. (I would say the spectrum moves day to day with most people given the fluctuations of life in general). People who are close to 50/50 80% of the time might be considered nonbinary gender. There are times when I feel closer to 50/50, and there are still times yet when my femininity might exceed 50%, but that's less than 20% of the time in my overall life, which might explain why I don't consider myself a transgender woman.
I myself probably hug the fence when it comes to "nonbinary". I'm not really a "true enby" to the point where I use they/them pronouns (no, I still use he/him), and I am fully well aware that I am a human male. For the sake of society I consider myself a "man", but often times people vex over how a "man" can behave the way I do. Indeed, it seems to give trans-haters some cognitive dissonance, something I often get a kick out of.
Just my two cents anyway, not really worth much, especially as they're eliminating the penny...
