CAUGHT WEARING A SKIRT

General discussion of skirt and kilt-based fashion for men, and stuff that goes with skirts and kilts.
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jpf85653
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CAUGHT WEARING A SKIRT

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The other day I went out to get the paper and then it happened, my own fault.
I always check to see if the coast is clear and that nobody is out there
before going out in a skirt. I was walking back to the house, and then I
heard a voice call my name, it was my neighbor she called me over by the
fence and wanted to talk, I am thinking what do I do now, my goose is cooked.
So I went over to talk to her and tried to act normal thinking to myself
she going to ask me why I was wearing a skirt, but the subject never came
up. If she did ask that question why I was wearing a skirt ,I would be
honest and tell her that I find that they are more comfortable then shorts.
I would tell her also that I like wearing them. The thing that worries me
the most is that it might hurt my reputation in the neighborhood and people
might think that I am not playing with a full deck. I am kinda new to the
neighbor hood I have only been here lest than 2yrs. I ride my motorcycles
around here and the people that I do know ride motorcycles also.
what if they see me wearing a skirt, they might think that I am a sissy.
If I had a choice I would wear a skirt all the time. If you could shed
some light on this subject that would be great.
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Sarongman
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Post by Sarongman »

It was a total non event, wasn't it? You would have been quite aware of any discomfort on your neighbour's part, but she evidently took it in her stride. Now you have been "outed" , it might be a good time to try going to the store or park in it (or them). After two years, they must know you and accept you as a regular bloke (guy) and not an out and out wierdo, and your explanation, that you had ready, is all you need. This may be the beginning of freedom :kiltdance:
It will not always be summer: build barns---Hesiod
Peter v
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Post by Peter v »

I understand the predicament, but agree with sarongman. The neighbourhood should know you wel enough by now, and you know, there is always a small risk that some others just don't accept things like skirt wearing, but there should be no problems. The other choice is to stop and forget about it. that way you don't run a risk. if any. But you don't have a life then either.

Other people mostly can accept that we are all individuals and that we all have our own ways and personalitys. You'll have to come out in the open sooner or later. How is up to you. Telling people just what it is, will also help prevent people making up all other things about it. Beter from the horses mouth than the jockey or something like that. And all others do not have to accept it for themselves, for tou to do something, in this case wearing a skirt.

By showing the others involved that you are still the very same guy should overcome any first wrong impressions. There is no golden rule about how to go about other than make it known, and live YOUR life as you want, not by what others MAY think.

You ride a bike, great, I am also a motorcycle rider. If others in your neighbourhood don't understand why anybody would even want to ride a motorcycle, you would still ride one, even if they would call you the wild one ( Marlon Brando) . So wear that skirt with pride, and choose the moment of telling others BEFORE any gossip makes something else of it.

The feeling of NO Never, I daren't tell, may be strong, but it's out in the open or forever hold your peace.

Peter v.
A man is the same man in a pair of pants or a skirt. It is only the way people look at him that makes the difference.
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