crfriend wrote: ↑Sat Jul 01, 2023 3:08 pm
I suspect that "what's off" is that today's kids know how screwed up the world that they are going to inherit is going to be -- and they're p!ssed off about the matter. They watch their parents struggle to make ends meet and pay the bills -- which fewer and fewer are able to as the money drains from the economy and they realise that when they have to strike out -- which most everybody does eventually -- that they're going to be royally screwed and won't ever have a chance to earn a decent living, or even a living wage.
I sensed this in the mid 1970s and made a conscious decision not to have children because I saw the handwriting on the wall -- that my generation was going to be the first in a long time that was never going to do as well as his parents -- and it's only gotten worse; magnitudes worse. I never sensed the full scope of the horror that would be else I likely would have committed suicide as a young teen, but instead soldiered on, got a few good breaks, and have done OK by most assessments; I'll never be able to retire because of the way prices are rising, but at least I may be able to staunch some of the bleeding. The children of today have nothing to look forward to other than a destitute existence -- and that's not a life. And they know it -- and are rightfully bitter.
What I see when I can pry into their mind a little bit is an incredible sense of apathy regarding everything. It's legal to vote at 18, and yet most of them stay at home. But those who do vote tend to favor unrealistic policies, freebies, and other perks, but few seem to want to put forth the actual elbow grease to make it a reality. Many-a-communes from the 1960's failed over similar issues.
Yes, we've all been there, myself included, but there comes a point in life when we have to stop feeling sorry for ourselves, grow up, and start
working to make the positive change in the world we live in. They have to understand, it's not going to be handed to them. It wasn't handed to their parents, their grandparents, the great grandparents, etc. While the boomers did indeed enjoy a land rich in milk and honey, virtually every generation prior to them going all the way back to the dawn of civilization had to endure a lot of pain, suffering, and hard knocks.
I believe this suffering is a vital part of the human experience, and it's character building. As for the future, the future is theirs, they are going to have to stand up and own it. But they need to understand, there is no such thing as a free lunch. Somebody has to pay for it. They often expect the world to bend and cater to their whims, but they don't seem to grasp the concept that sometimes, in order to achieve this, they have to bend a little too. It's call compromise, and it seems lost on a lot of youths.
I've heard we're starting them out around $25 per hour with a handsome benefit package, vacation right off the start, insurance with a $500 deductible, and they show up for work on their first day in torn jeans, a printed tee shirt and a oversized ball cap turned backwards, head bowed in their phone all day.
When I started in this industry back in 2005, I made 50 cents over minimum wage, and my insurance actually wasn't as good as what we have now. Slowly, year after year, I worked and proved myself, took on extra assignments for the overtime, throughout the covid issue, I never missed an hour of work, even when we slowed to a crawl, because I'd raise my hand and volunteer for the assignments nobody else wanted. Even to this day, I frequently work in Louisville, not because they force me, but because I want to help, and I enjoy the challenge.
In contrast, when I smiled and mentioned to our new hire "someday you'll have to spend a week with us in Bristol...",
"man, f---k dat" was the response I got.
Sorry Carl, I know they have the cards stacked against them, but there is no excuse for this, and this isn't an isolated incident, I see this all of the time with other kids too. I don't see victims, I see spoiled brats, that are really going to be in a world of hurting when their parents finally start to die off and they have to fend for themselves.