
I would like some advice. I live in London, UK.
Hi Joe,JoePublic wrote:I have been curious about skirts for some years, I saw a guy walking down my local street in a jeans skirt and I decided I might try one myself. So very nervous though. But I found this site and it is interesting to see I am not alone. I had an injury to my thigh that made shorts painful, but dont know what some will make of a skirt the same length and colourI would like some advice. I live in London, UK.
Renaissance Fairs, Celtic fests, arts and crafts shows/districts, music festivals, rock concerts, comicons, tattoo shows -- they're all counter-cultural and all free spirited. If the size of the crowd (probably all strangers) doesn't put you off, they're great places to find easy acceptance.Darryl wrote:Don't know if this will help, but if you have any Renaissance Fairs nearby, I found that to be a great venue for first-time wearing. Especially good if you've something at or just below the knees, high socks, moccasins and can otherwise look just a little bit medieval. I wore a business casual skirt-suit without the jacket and with a more relaxed shirt, open at the neck a few buttons.
Then on your way home, stop at a gas station, convenience store or restaurant (for dinner). If it is at or near the town hosting the event, people will be a little used to it. Then go back a couple times and you'll have some people thinking I've seen him before, he's okay. Breath, stay calm, and imagine everyone you speak with as naked. Just be yourself.
Thanks for the advice, Ross! I have several pairs of denim shorts, but I bought a denim skirt, a knee length one that could look like shorts, it was just one of the straight ones. I was scared as hell but Iwent to a petrol station in my skirt, and bought a pair of tights as my legs don't look too great because of eczema. A lady was behind me in the queue, but she didn't say anything. I wore the skirt with a T shirt, socks and trainers. I liked the feel of the skirt, but not the sick feeling of dread with this little trip. I tried to just look straight ahead and act like it was no big deal, as if I was in shorts. I live to tell the tale...skirtingtoday wrote:Joe.
Believe it or not, most folk don't even notice a skirt on a man. Good advice above - my first time was at a petrol (ie gas) station i would not normally use, wearing a denim miniskirt (14" long). A couple of double-takes was all I saw. Heart was pounding I can tell you!
Go for it - just look confident!
Ross
The butterflies will pass as you gain more confidence in wearing skirts -- even if you think they might not. That said, as you noticed, the sky is still where it was the day before, you were not accosted in any way, and it generally went off uneventfully.JoePublic wrote:I liked the feel of the skirt, but not the sick feeling of dread with this little trip. I tried to just look straight ahead and act like it was no big deal, as if I was in shorts. I live to tell the tale...