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A+J

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Hi

I´m a newbie here. I´ve been wearing skirts for the last 4-5 years. I´m dressed as a girl/woman from my waist down. That means skirt, high heels and pantyhose. I´m dressed this way all the time. In fact I´ve been given away all my male clothes.
I also wanted to have a bit more androgynous look so I use a bit of makeup too.
Sometimes I feel to feme out dressing as completely as a woman. Feeling great!
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Milfmog
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Hi A+J,

Thanks for the introduction. You did not give us any clue about where in the world you live, your age or your living arrangements (with wife / partner / children / parents). You have told us about wearing skirts for work but I don't know whether that is in a customer facing role or a back office with lttle or no customer contact.

There is (of course) no compulsion to tell us any of that, but it all helps to give us a better understanding of the context of your posts and adding a name (even if it is a made up name) would make your posts feel more personal.

Have fun,


Ian.
Do not argue with idiots; they will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.
Cogito ergo sum - Descartes
Cogito cogito ergo cogito sum - Ambrose Bierce
A+J

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Hi Ian

I´m 23 years old living together with my girlfreind. I´m a very lucky guy she has accepted me. I´m working as a secritary, well I´m doing all sorts of small jobs my colleagues woulden´t do or not having time to do.
I had already started wearing female clothes when I started there so they haven´t seen me in any other way. They have accepted me and my way of dressing. I met customers ( I do if not that part of my job), I met other people. At first meeting me I guess most people thinks I´m not normal, I´m strange. I can´t do mucxh about it can I?
All I can do is be open about it, tell them why I´m dressed this way, why I´m looked this way. All I can to is to be positive about it, being freindly to them.
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Hi A+J,

I have to say I'm impressed that you feel able to be so matter of fact about your clothing preferences with everyone you meet. There are many men, far older and longer established in their careers than you are, who would simply not consider wearing a skirt for fear of ridicule from others, so your fortitude is refreshing to say the least.

It sounds as though your personal style may be a little more radical than many here are used to. However, so long as there is no attempt to mislead others into believing that you are a woman I reckon you are still on the right side of the line for the café.

Welcome, I reckon it will be refreshing to have a younger "voice" around.

Have fun,


Ian.
Do not argue with idiots; they will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.
Cogito ergo sum - Descartes
Cogito cogito ergo cogito sum - Ambrose Bierce
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