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This is already under consideration. Any action will likely be through back channels.

Question: is it possible to have eraditcated t-masculinity, have female empowerment and tradition masculine roles all at once? In the rad-fem world of man-like women, the answer is a categorical "NO" because the masculinised woman utterly replaced the entire ecosystem that traditional mas...

STEVIE wrote: ↑Mon May 27, 2024 3:11 pmThere is even a koala bear tartan, so go ahead.

And I'll bet that you don't have to be a koala bear -- or even identify as one -- to wear it!

I'm not yet alone, but I already feel a deep solitude, and it is so big that despite having noone I can be more than 50% myself with (worse is my brother since we disagree on most topics), I would NOT rather be alone. Today, my social circle management is a compromise between being accompanied by s...

For starters, strike item 1 from the list. Because that dumbs the designs down and reduces attractiveness. There is precisely nothing that categorically states that men cannot wear bright and flashy colours, nor "loud" patterns. Men do not need to blend into the woodwork; we can stand on o...

I think a truly Trans Women would probably wear leggings because that's what women wear. Being a women would overide any clothing desires. It's a big distinction. This is the way it's shaken out with the sole "trans-woman" I know. Most of the time it's a look of shredded denim, "legg...

Layne wrote: ↑Thu May 23, 2024 3:46 pm I absolutely love the idea of a dress more and more, but have trouble with the location of the waistline; especially being on the taller side.

Dresses are available for taller shapes, you know. You might want to look in that direction.

People should be allowed to self identify. As what? Orangutans? Lawn-mowers? If there are problems making that work then ways should be found to deal with those problems. There should be no opinions on this, it should be a basic right to exist. That's akin to guaranteeing freedom from religion in a...

There are men here on the Cafe that just want to wear skirts as an adornment and nothing more. There are also men here on the Cafe like me that wear skirts to add femininity to my feminine male persona and to feel relaxed in my own skin[...] This refers nicely to the "two camps" that have...

They believe that if you deviate from the confines of the Man-Box, you will be seen is a homosexual. Therein lies the problem. No. The slur will be applied by others trying to keep you in the box. This is a primary reason I want to see the skirt "de-gendered" so it becomes fodder men and ...

It is always going to be restricting if we wait for something to become mainstream before we do it. This will always be the case -- especially for "niche activities". My main hope is that we can eventually do away with the fact that "skirt" == "woman" (or "woman w...

It is a big assumption that the right people are available for some members. Big? Try massive . I'm a still-living exemplar of that. But, I've made the mistake in the past of trying to alter myself to please others, and it's always ended badly. I categorically refuse to traverse that primrose path ...

And, even far, far away in the Colonies I also will state that the Forth Bridge in one of my landmark favourites. A beauty for its time, and a beauty it remains.

You seem to be living on a different planet to me. I might as well be, because we're already separated by an ocean that we all fondly term, "the Pond". Thus, I am sadly immersed in the USA version of matters and there's little UK influence here. Do I like what I'm living in? Bloody Hell N...

Elisabetta wrote: ↑Sat May 18, 2024 3:53 amIn other news Moon and I celebrated 21 years of marriage yesterday.

Congratulations! The news about moving back to VA was a bit of a shocker, but people do get homesick after a while, and moving is always a traumatic event. But at least you had the courage to try!