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by brennk
Mon Dec 23, 2024 3:44 pm
Forum: Freestyle Fashions
Topic: New Italian Designer making Ballet Flats and Mary Janes for Men
Replies: 5
Views: 2359

New Italian Designer making Ballet Flats and Mary Janes for Men

Ran across this designer in Italy that is making a range of flats and MJs specifically marketed to men. I actually like the cut of some of the shoes. I'm thinking this is just getting started as they don't have any sizes up for sale yet. Even their motto says it all: "Made in Italy for the open...
by brennk
Fri Dec 13, 2024 8:50 pm
Forum: Freestyle Fashions
Topic: Are we narcissists?
Replies: 39
Views: 9531

Re: Are we narcissists?

By definition influencers are narcissists. If you throw it out there and rub it in other peoples' faces, you are a narcissist. If you are just trying to live your life and have a different style of dress, then probably not so much a narcissist. As others have said, we are all narcissists just a litt...
by brennk
Sun Jul 07, 2024 2:57 pm
Forum: Freestyle Fashions
Topic: Converse are making Knee boots again
Replies: 17
Views: 5723

Re: Converse are making Knee boots again

They are also making a cool mary-jane style as well, but very limited sizing. :(

https://www.converse.com/shop/p/chuck-t ... ary%20jane
by brennk
Mon Jan 22, 2024 10:01 pm
Forum: Couture
Topic: Ballet Flats and Mary Janes Back on the Runway
Replies: 46
Views: 35196

Re: Ballet Flats and Mary Janes Back on the Runway

I could gladly do away with the term "Mary Janes" as it is too pointedly gender-specific. How many men and boys are willing to wear a style of footwear commonly known as "Mary Jane?" (Don't all raise your hands at once!) Better they should be called "bar shoes," "...
by brennk
Sun Jan 21, 2024 2:33 pm
Forum: Couture
Topic: Ballet Flats and Mary Janes Back on the Runway
Replies: 46
Views: 35196

Ballet Flats and Mary Janes Back on the Runway

It looks like this year will see a return of ballet flats and Mary Janes for men on the fashion runways. Dior has put nearly their entire lineup in ballet flats or Mary Janes. Relative to many other designers, the clothes are even relatively normal. https://footwearnews.com/gallery/dior-photos-fall-...
by brennk
Sat Nov 18, 2023 3:55 pm
Forum: Freestyle Fashions
Topic: Ballet Flats for Men Articles
Replies: 21
Views: 4611

Re: Ballet Flats for Men Articles

We need to femme up our looks, not masculinize women's shoes like ballet flats. I frankly don't care if my look is "femmed up" or not. I wear ballet flats because they are comfortable. Some are feminine (Tieks) and some are less so (Softstar). Both are very comfortable and a key part of m...
by brennk
Fri Sep 01, 2023 3:45 pm
Forum: Freestyle Fashions
Topic: Things that I wear or do that are considered femme by others
Replies: 49
Views: 9491

Re: Things that I wear or do that are considered femme by others

My list is fairly short...
- Wear nylons (mainly in winter)
- Wear leggings/yoga pants casually and for workouts
- Usually wearing women's jeans or shorts
- Wear Tieks ballet flats ALL the time!
by brennk
Mon Jun 26, 2023 8:43 pm
Forum: Freestyle Fashions
Topic: Double Standards
Replies: 25
Views: 2805

Re: Double Standards

Of course it is a double standard. Heels used to be worn by men, but were appropriated. Ballet flats (then called pompes or court shoes) were worn by men and have been appropriated.
by brennk
Sun Dec 11, 2022 6:40 pm
Forum: Freestyle Fashions
Topic: Ideal outfit
Replies: 67
Views: 9201

Re: Ideal outfit

I love wearing skirts and shorts with tights/nylons and ballet flats, and have done so in public in the past on occasion. I wish I could wear more often though.
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by brennk
Sun Jul 17, 2022 5:26 pm
Forum: Freestyle Fashions
Topic: Ballet Flats
Replies: 14
Views: 2675

Ballet Flats

I'm just wondering how many on this forum wear ballet flats and how often? I am in a group on Facebook for Tieks (one of my favorite flats) and there are probably 20 or so other guys. A few are TG or CD, but most are regular blokes wearing fun shoes!
by brennk
Sun Mar 14, 2021 1:56 pm
Forum: Advocacy & Mens Skirts In the News
Topic: Army rules for ponytails and nail color
Replies: 17
Views: 3731

Re: Army rules for ponytails and nail color

I believe the Army now has rules that allow Sikhs to wear a beard (and wear a turban with long hair).
by brennk
Sat Sep 05, 2020 4:49 pm
Forum: Freestyle Fashions
Topic: Even ladies shoes .
Replies: 37
Views: 6748

Re: Even ladies shoes .

I have become a huge fan of ballet flats. They don't work very well with my suits for work, but I pretty much wear them all the time otherwise.
by brennk
Mon Aug 31, 2020 8:50 pm
Forum: Freestyle Fashions
Topic: Even ladies shoes .
Replies: 37
Views: 6748

Re: Even ladies shoes .

I wear ballet flats as often as I can. I also wear women's Keds.