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Often we all point out that we aren’t trannies because we don’t try to pass ourselves as women, we are generally not into ‘lets pretend’ rather we believe in gender honesty. But personally in my opinion we are realists, we don’t want to indulge in fantasy we want to concentrate in reality.

What do folk reckon?

I agree at that day to day all of us in this forum are realists.

But sometimes, it is fun to dress up and play make believe.

[...] in my opinion we are realists, we don't want to indulge in fantasy we want to concentrate in reality.

That's a pretty good beginning. I suppose if we were all "hard-core" realists we'd figure out pretty quick that we're in such a miniscule minority that we'd get discouraged really quickly and toss the whole notion aside (although that has a dose of fatalism in it).

Perhaps "realists with individuality and drive"?

crfriend wrote:

Perhaps "realists with individuality and drive"?

Yeah I'd describe myself as an individualist but I'm definately a realist as well

Well look, for the sake of public appearances, I am a realist. On the other hand, I have taken a skirt out in public on my otherwise male appearing body so perhaps I am a dreamer.

In more private situations, I love fantasy -- I just do.