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you hear a lot of adults announcing men can wear anything, but it doesn't mean these adults being parents are into genderless parenting. Very few parents are into genderless parenting. Not going to find many videos into genderless parenting. Let me clarify here is went it comes to their son they are anti-genderless parenting, but for their daughter they raise her as genderless parent. The average parents using two different methods in raising their offspring. How they raise their offspring varies because of their biological sex and religion.
There was a time religion forbid women from wearing pants no matter which church individual visited. By 1980 a lot of these churches change how Deuteronomy was taught. because there was low attendance. Then elders of churches came together form a wild theory why women can wear pants, while men are still forbidden. They started claiming no longer did Deuteronomy means pants, but still mean dresses and skirts against men. This brought women back into churches and churches still held women being second class citizen and men are still superior. Today to many women are still brainwash with this teaching, and it effects their own health her offspring. I believe this is true because this stigma in back of her mind reminds her she isn't equal, because she is telling her male offspring he would be second class citizen if he wore dresses and skirts, just like her. This teaching of male offspring being a traditional masculinity male, while using genderless parenting on her female offspring is part of creating mental health issues for all the family, even though the internet doesn't fully agree with this position.
To many women acknowledge they are doing jobs today that was normal for males, but still feel they are not treated as equals. I feel the reason for this is because they use two different parenting skills on raising their own offspring, one for males and a different one for their females.

Anyone ask internet is it okay for parents to teach male offspring they should "only wear" pants and shorts and get answer there isn't nothing wrong with it, even though this question in reflection of restricting of males they can't wear? Ask the internet is it okay to restrict male offspring from wearing skirts and dresses and that answer becomes no, because it can harm the male child mental health? Same question ask two different way get two different answers.

I believe if you are teaching the male offspring that he can be restricted in a gender role, he would use that as his base when he as a boss has a right to restrict females in their roles. I believe women can feel some restricting from male bosses even though they promoted them once held as a male position.

I believe we men here are getting closer being accepted in dresses and skirts in society as more churches are changing how Deuteronomy is taught. Going back in time when Deuteronomy didn't mean what type of clothes which gender wore.

Anyone that yells fagot at us because what we wear is also hearting themselves. On a youtube video where a "Karen" refuse to let an African-American women to sit in first-class seat next to her on a plane. but later in that video "Karen" shows up in a business wanting a job and comes face to face to the African-American woman she tried to keep sitting in a first-class seat she paid for next to her. She told that Karen she is unqualify for the job.

The only way I see it is using one teaching skill for all offspring regardless of their biological sex, using genderless parenting. This would help parents in their own mental health, besides the children. This in hand promotes equality for all.

The Genderless Parenting topic on Reddit was mostly negative and went far left or far right views. By this to many might misunderstand what I posted. My main objective is regardless child biological sex is, they all be allow to wear same fashion. Like before onesies all infants was given dresses. Instead of using parenting skill of traditional masculinity were boys are told they can wear pants and shorts only. He shouldn't be told in what he should or shouldn't like because he was born male. My thoughts might be more into semi genderless parenting. I wander what others here believe in changing parenting skills in teaching young ones they have full fashion expression, no one expression is wrong, and respecting each other?
There is need to end this traditional masculinity parenting. Where boys are told boys don't play with dolls, boys don't wear dresses or skirts, and boys don't cry. This shaming how we never be a man or told we never be man enough. This criticism teaches how one has a right to be disrespectful to each other.
I believe boys was told they couldn't cry was from when parents was using society rule when children should be seen, but not heard era. Don't be surprise if you hear a parent telling her/his son boys don't cry while shopping and the boy is crying, and parent is shaming him to get him quit crying.
So what parenting skills would you change and what name you use to describe it, ending this shaming and be more positive, and allowing children express themselves?