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Hi every one
Posted: Wed Jul 30, 2025 3:03 pm
by Pauly
Just a short intro from me, I am Paul a 60 something heterosexual man who lives in Yorkshire (United Kingdom) ,like many of us I have in the last few year started wearing skirts, both in private and occasionally also out in public. Any way it's nice to meet fellow skirt wearers.
Re: Hi every one
Posted: Wed Jul 30, 2025 4:57 pm
by skirtyscot
Hello and welcome Pauly! Feel free to tell us more about yourself, your skirts and how you get on wearing them out and about. Or ask for advice, plenty of guys here give you the benefit of their experience.
I've been wearing skirts publically in the UK for nearly 15 years, without incident. Compliments are very rare, disparaging remarks even rarer - two, I think. Almost everyone just leaves me to get on with it.
Re: Hi everyone
Posted: Wed Jul 30, 2025 6:01 pm
by shadowfax
Hi Pauly
Welcome to Skirt Cafe.

Re: Hi every one
Posted: Wed Jul 30, 2025 6:39 pm
by Pauly
skirtyscot wrote:
> Hello and welcome Pauly! Feel free to tell us more about yourself, your
> skirts and how you get on wearing them out and about. Or ask for advice,
> plenty of guys here give you the benefit of their experience.
>
> I've been wearing skirts publically in the UK for nearly 15 years, without
> incident. Compliments are very rare, disparaging remarks even rarer - two,
> I think. Almost everyone just leaves me to get on with it.
I would describe myself today as been in a transitional style stage, because I have worn ladies tights all my adult life discreetly under men's trousers at first for may years, then I moved on to been what is describes by society as a " Cross Dresser" no matter what I tried ,how good or bad I looked as a women even if it was my male voice ,personally felt that I could not get away from been seen as cross dresser.
There is nothing wrong with that at all and had some enjoyable times in reality It was not doing it for me any more.
As a man I am not noted as been the most stylish dresser around, Yes I am clean and smart but not stylish, thus in recent times I wondered if I could change my personal style slightly or my be some would say dramatically by including skirts in my wardrobe and getting my legs out and wearing tights and maybe even trying dresses.
I want to explore the concept that men can wear skirts etc but still be fundamentally male I have on several occasion walked into my local town and done my shopping in a black knee length skirt with black opaque tights and trainer without any issue, a few people staring but nothing said in my hearing so it's been a positive start.
I am looking to take this further by not having a feminine style or a masculine one I would not rule any individual item of clothing in or out it all now about style and can I make the look work based around skirts and been a man.
Can I we will see!
Re: Hi every one
Posted: Wed Jul 30, 2025 7:03 pm
by Susie
Welcome !
Re: Hi every one
Posted: Wed Jul 30, 2025 7:39 pm
by Mouse
Welcome Pauly to the cafe. I see you have the excellent hobby of model railways. So along with the skirts, we also have threads on other topics, such as model railways...
http://www.skirtcafe.org/forums/viewtopic.php?t=24914

Welcome
Re: Hi every one
Posted: Wed Jul 30, 2025 7:41 pm
by Barleymower
Welcome Pauly.
Re: Hi every one
Posted: Fri Aug 01, 2025 6:24 pm
by Seb
Re: Hi every one
Posted: Fri Aug 01, 2025 8:25 pm
by yardstick
As you can see the conversation here can be about pretty much anything so I hope you find plenty of interest to you.
Re: Hi every one
Posted: Sat Aug 02, 2025 1:46 am
by Kirbstone
Hi Pauly,
Welcome & I see you're a model rail nutter. No bad thing. My next milestone will be 84 & I'd love to have your next 20 enjoyable years ahead of me, but I don't, alas.
Tom
Re: Hi every one
Posted: Sat Aug 02, 2025 8:10 am
by MrSoapsud
Hi Pauly,
Welcome from another 60-something heterosexual man living in NW Wales who's also interested in railways!
Martin