The bald face of the matter is that skirts are generally more flattering to the wearer than trousers or, worse, "spray-on pants". This means they can work on anybody be they male, female, or whatever the wearer identifies as.Barleymower wrote: ↑Mon May 08, 2023 9:38 pmThe trouble I face, I think many MIS face is that there are millions of skirts out there and they are nearly all pretty; feminine if you like. In order for it ro be regarded as masculine it needs to be plain or kilt like.
I do not assign gender to a particular garment, I select it from the closet according to the prevailing weather, the day's whim, and what strikes my fancy at the moment. Thus, I deploy very plain skirts and very fancy/flouncy skirts fairly randomly and nobody has ever given me more than a dollop of grief over the matter. I do get some occasional ribbing on other matters, my nails being one of the more recent sources of amusement, but in general it's all in very good nature and quite jocular.
If need be, find female advisors. They are invaluable, and they do not need to be intimates. I have several, and when I ask questions I listen. The clear polish I'd been using on my nails was at the end of its useful life as a cosmetic (and now joins the tool-kit as thread-locking compound), so I asked one of them what colour might look good (as I know that clear works). The advice came back quite cogently that vivid hues (e.g. hard red/scarlet) might not work well (1) with my complexion and (2) given my normal wardrobe, thus something in the "peach" range was suggested and countered, "lilac, perhaps?" and received a nod -- and thus my nails at the moment are a lavender colour (the closest I could get) and which hilariously matches the palazzo pants I wore today. It looks good, and I'll call this a win.
So, cast aside preconceptions of "masculine" and "feminine" as those will lead you back into drab oblivion -- and none of us want to be there.