Darryl wrote:As a private citizen my "rules of engagement" are simple: ONLY if I or an immediate family member is in immediate danger of death or serious physical injury, or rape. Period. If that does not apply, escape-and-evasion protocols rule the day. Paying attention to detail about what is going on around me helps me decide to stay or leave. There are places I no longer go, armed or not. People I no longer hang with, armed or not. Being "brave" when packing is a disaster waiting to happen. Bear in mind: a bullet may only cost $1.00 at the gun store, but it will likely cost $1,000,000 on the street. (Legal fees, and you are found not guilty.) It gets worse. Criminal charges, civil charges, all kinds of bad. Google Masaad Ayoob and read/study his work. try to take his "Judicious Use of Deadly Force" class. (I'm under no requirement to do so, but I take annual classes to prove and improve my skills and learn the latest tactics and thoughts and watch-and-pick-apart-what-others-did in surveillance cams.
When wearing a skirt, it is "more difficult" to play the "invisible man." I adopted, when I first got my CCW the motto of the submarine service: "Run Silent, Run Deep." Do your homework, do your reading assignments and practice the skills in case the bad guys target you because as a skirt-wearing man you're not "a real man" and are an easy victim. Hopefully, there WILL be someone else there who is inordinately "brave" and intervenes while you and yours are getting safely away.
Don't fall to the temptation to "be a real man." You want to be there for your lady on that day, the next day and many many days thereafter. You DO NOT want to be in the cemetery, or the penal system.
Yep, it's a lot to consider in that split second moment before you pull the trigger. I've never been armed in my life, and so far, my own intellect, common sense, or perhaps just good old fashioned dumb luck has served me well in the last 35 years. Perhaps it will continue to do so for another 35.
A real man will only engage in a fair fight. If I, unarmed, and wearing a skirt should be shot by someone, then a real man would have died, and a coward walked away. Of course, these are all ethics and ideals that don't necessarily apply. It seems everyone in my world, family, friends, strangers I don't even know are all trying to convince me to "get a gun" get a gun" "get a gun". Ultra conservatives and pro-gun people call me all types of nasty names, stupid, a fool, coward, naive, because I choose to live my life unarmed.
Sometimes I think I'm going to be shot not for what I'm wearing, or my religious beliefs, but simply because I don't own a gun, and it seems you can't call yourself a red blooded American unless you're armed to the teeth.
I'm not a pacifist. If someone really wants to engage in a fair fight, using whatever God gave us, in addition to what ever stick or rock is laying around (both would have access to it), then I'm game. One, the other, or both may get pretty busted up, broken nose, ribs, teeth, etc. But we both live to see another day. Often times when two guys are just duking it out, the law doesn't even get involved.
People are too damned uncivilized now. Seems all everybody wants to do is pop a cap in somebody anymore. It seems nobody has any value on life.