crfriend wrote:ChristopherJ wrote:He (Lawrence King) was gay and had asked the boy who shot him to be his Valentine. I think that's really sweet. But I guess the boy couldn't handle that - or the fact that Lawrence wore feminine clothes.
So sad.
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I'd also like to state that trying a 14 tear old as an adult is just plain insane. That's not justice -- that's revenge. If revenge is what we're after as a society, why not just up the charge to capital murder, stuff the kid in the gas chamber, and be done with? I'd like to think we're better than that.
Well, what can we say, I can put some thoughts down, as I think of them, right or wrong. "talking about these things can give us a wajke up call and hopefully something positive will come out if the discussion.
Actually, as gruesome as it sounds, that should probably be done.

He is a murderer. It was an ""Ädult"""act, of which he was capable of. Just look at world wide conflicts to see what children are capable of, blowing themselves up, playing the terrorist, they shoot you dead and then after, they go on playing with their toys.
There are so many issues to be taken in account, we don't know the half of it.
But it is very discerning that people are so easily murdered these days. Making it the question if you want to even leave the house at all. Or pay everybody protection money as you pass them on the street.
The murder comes very close to home, thinking that we or even one of our children, might be the next target of some idiot just because we are just ourselves, dressing in a skirt, as a man making us stand out even more. (not "different", because the first thing everybody should learn is that we are all individuals, and in that CANNOT be "different", different to what? with the right to be that, an individual.)
You don't just "have" ( even if you have one for protection, that leaves you wide open to misuse when you momentairly 'loose" it, as the firearm is at hand's reach) a loaded firearm, "children" of 14 in the US seem more adult than I see them in western Europe, also driving at the age of 16... still too young. His murder was an adult action. Only by a thorough investigation will there be hopefully a just version of the happenings. I don't know anything of that myself.
Don't under estimate what people of a young age are capable of. "children" is just a jurisdictial term, not having any relevance to the capabilitys of any particular person. People who are very elderly can murder the very same way as even 10 year olds, or younger. At the moment of murder, those people irregardless of age I would think are very aware of what they are doing. The murdered person is also very deffinitely sure of that.
The gun question, self defence is a naieve thing. Only in very special circumstances can you defend yourself. To defend yourself with a gun, you have to be agressively using a gun yourself, or you are too late. Agressively using a gun makes you the criminal. Waiting until another makes the first move makes you dead. With all those guns lying around it is no wonder that there are so many """"accidents"""" happening. It is the accidents that people of the anti gun lobby want to prevent. Not to prevent people owning firearms. With regard to firearms, I am happy I don't live in the US, where the wild west doctrine, gun fights at the OK corale seem to live on to this very day.
The media plays a large roll in stimulating wrong thought patterns, like PC games, kill everybody and spawn again, etc. The A team, shoot a thousand bullets and nobody gets hurt.
I truly hope that this horrible shooting will be well investigated and all guilty partys prossecuted. In principle the parents, and with them the community, made up of other same thinking people, parents, are largely to blame for making this possible, having failed to bring respectful thinking over on the culprit. But every person is an individual and can go his / her own way despite all the best will of others.
All said, there is one dead, thousands now fearing they may be next, and one who pulled the trigger, again I am happy I wasn't part of it. All the thoughts, right or wrong will not change what has happened, but it does make us think about what we ourselves are doing, in life and what we can do to prevent that happening.
Let us do our part and our best to bring respectful thinking over to people we have contact with.