Hallo, Christopher, and the others, naturally.
The thread from nearly everyone here is that if your compleet concept looks good, then you are "desirable" as a person. Not nessesarily desirable as we men naturally think
I think about well known actors, how great it is to see them. They radiate something, and it hasn't anything to do with their clothing. Your face is probably the most important thing, and if you feel happy, good in what you are wearing, then that combination is a success. People see the total effect on your personality, and people talk to peoples eyes, looking as it were into you, at your real self. As said, you can be sexy in jeans, but also in a short mini skirt. Again it is the total concept. And if wearing short skirts, even with net pantys and even heels works for you, it will show and people will generally see YOU and if that YOU is appleasing to them, then YES dressing in that way works.
If you are depressed, haven't shaven, haven't slept for days, you know that look, then it doesn't matter what you wear, nothing will make you look good. The inner self is something quite difficult to describe, especially for men, who are virtually forbidden to talk or even think about such things.
But I believe it is that which radiates from you which others see.
Haven't you had that feeling that somebody's looking at you? Then you look around and you see that person, or You look at someone, and they seem to sense that, even though their back was turned to you. That is something that is difficult to comprehend, but is there, and probably has something to do with that "aura"which we have. Either the morning don't talk to me aura or the I feel great hellow world aura.
Yes, we men can clothe well and be sexy and if we want to be that to others, we may enjoy it too. That's called living. But definately there is no link between certain clothing and being sexy. It's all in the eye of the beholder (onlooker) anyway.
Yes, we men can clothe well and be sexy ( not nessesarily anything to do with sex) but succesfully dressed. And trying our best to look good is a very good thing. And being "sexy"in whatever, even short mini's, says nothing about your intentions, just like women who look or are sexy may or may not want any attention. That is another realisation that many people must make, that people just want to be. who they are as they are, and it is not compulsary to be reacted upon however you look.
getting too difficult now. Must stop.
Peter v.