Counter to all you heel-loving blokes I'm coming back to my favourite topic of flats.
Last year I wrote about my experiments with various ballet flats, from the flimsy but comfortable Walmart spandex slipper to the soft, scrunchy leather (also Walmart) to the sturdier leather of the Luoka brand I found on Amazon.
Over the past year I have found that I definitely prefer the soft, pliable leather. Spandex tears too easily with frequent wearing and doesn't keep my feet warm in the winter; the harder upper bites into my skin if I turn my foot the wrong way. Alas, the scrunchy soft flat from Walmart was in the clearance bin and has been discontinued, and nothing I found on Amazon came close to that style in the huge sizes I need for my boat feet.
Finally a few weeks ago I found the
Dexflex brand on Amazon, in every possible size (and a few colour choices). Reviews were mixed, but at 30 bucks I was willing to give it a go and I'm glad I did. I used the tennis-ball-in-the-toe trick to stretch it a bit wider overnight, and now they're just tight enough that they don't slip off but not so tight they cut off circulation or bend my toes. These are now my new favourite shoes!
Apart from the toe widening, the one other alteration I made was to snip off the stupid dangly silver decorations that were just distracting (see photos of the original in the Amazon ad, to compare against my own photos).
