That's the disconnect between rational thought and emotional response kicking in. If everything was rational the objections would disappear handily; however, it's not rational, and men are just as capable of falling into the "emotional trap" as women as evidenced by an episode between my late ex and I several years back when she objected to something being "too nice for you" (her words) which threw me for a loop. In retrospect, that should have been viewed in the context of her brain dying, but that didn't become clear for another couple of years.Hemitom wrote:When she said "Whatever" and stormed off ment she had nothing else to say...
If one is lucky, brain death occurs fairly quickly -- within a few minutes; if one is unlucky, it can take years. I fervently hope I'm going to be in the former classification.