- Master Barista
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- Joined: Fri Nov 19, 2004 9:52 pm
- Location: New England (U.S.)
It doesn't have to be about "shock and awe"; what it should be about is a gentle conversation about the notions of style and comfort. True enough, "shock and awe" are a very "masculine" concept and one that all too many guys gravitate towards (that may also be a reason why men tend to be violent), but it needn't be so
As far as "blending in" goes, there's a time and a place for that. There's also a time and place for making a strong personal statement of individuality -- and what better way to do that than by putting on something that will make an immediate impression but yet which can be removed at the end of the day. I may be back in trousers in my day job, but I'm not about to give them up in my personal time. Life is too damned short to remain anonymous.