By the sound of that, it seems like you are trying to jump to the 'end point' (total acceptance of MIS) in one leap from where we are at now. And perhaps other posters here are thinking along the same lines.My thrust is that we should strive to make the look of a "bloke in a skirt" believable -- he should look the part of brother, father, husband, lover, and son. The fact that he's wearing a skirt should not necessarily enter into the argument. Yes, I know that notion may verge on fantasy (if not be right into it), but that's the way it ought to work.
I believe that is both unrealistic - and even unhealthy. It's unrealistic because social changes like this simply don't happen on a single jump. Think of equality for women - this began in the UK over 100 years ago with a campaign of 'votes for women'. The 'movement' then went quiet for a long while as women gained more freedom in the workplace as a result of the two world wars. By the 1960's women were demanding more equal rights - equal pay, equal status, equal opportunities etc. People who wanted to promote equality for women did so in various ways - by getting seats in parliament, by staging protests, by burning bras, by writing articles etc. And look where we are now - 100 years after women started protesting for votes and 50 years after the demos of the 60's - we can say that women have more equality than they had before the 'movement' began - but they still earn less and have less opportunities than men do - so the women's 'movement' has still not achieved its goal.
I see the MIS 'movement' as being like that. It will take a long time for MIS to become accepted - and probably the people who try and promote MIS (us) will have to adopt various tactics and perhaps learn how to make temporary compromises etc. in order to move a little closer toward our goal.
I also believe that a single leap to full fashion freedom for men would be unhealthy. Fashions evolve and men need to evolve a range of styles that suit men. This takes time - because fashion is more than just slinging on clothes - it involved feedback from 'society' and subsequent modification of the styles etc. If we went to full fashion freedom in one leap we would miss out on this sort of evolutionary process.
I think that we will get to a state where men have full fashion freedom - but we will get there by 100 small steps - not in one great leap.
Sorry to be so wordy. It must have been something I ate!