Re: Denim dress
Posted: Fri Feb 07, 2020 11:30 pm
I'm curious, John. How can long trousers, a garment which you presumably wore most of the time for most of your life, remind you of a divorce?
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Looks ideal for hot summersnzfreestyler wrote: ↑Sat Feb 08, 2020 12:34 am I have this chambray fabric style imitation cross-over dress. Great casual summer dress with a waist tie.
Light weight and floaty. Poor pic sorry - its an old pic.
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Those only look like they'd work on people whose waist is much smaller than their hips or chest.nzfreestyler wrote: ↑Sat Feb 08, 2020 11:53 pm hey a quick on line shopping image search fins some lovely denim dresses very quickly...
check these simple styles out!
I do agree the second one is fitted - the first is an a line and quite loose... the second yes you do need a narrower waist. but I really think the biker jacket style lapels and the zip going on a diaganol across the front is a neat option allowing for it to be worn various ways!
Thats just the way with most stuff from the womens side of the aisle. Tops are just as bad - even shoes have to be a precise fit unlike mens shoes where you can get away with imperfect fitting.
Do you prefer the hosiery look on the leg? It is very hot in warmer weather though? Even sheers are really hot in summer months. Or are you referring to bare feet into shoes - or the modern shoe trends with see through PVC components.
All of the above, actually. I understand the argument about summer. I also understand that I am very much alone in this regard, but I just find that one simply doesn't look "finished" or polished with bare legs. This is fine for the sort of hyper-casual style that's popular these days (aka "not giving a fig about what you look like") but highly inappropriate for any sort of dressy situation.nzfreestyler wrote: ↑Sun Feb 09, 2020 2:15 amDo you prefer the hosiery look on the leg? It is very hot in warmer weather though? Even sheers are really hot in summer months. Or are you referring to bare feet into shoes - or the modern shoe trends with see through PVC components.
My opinion is the opposite. Being a Christian nudist, and believing that God's creation of the human body is "very good" (Genesis 1:31), the closer one gets to nudity, the better--except for inappropriate eroticism.crfriend wrote: ↑Sun Feb 09, 2020 1:28 am I will be very happy when the bare-feet/bare-legs look goes away with the next swing of the pendulum. Whether I'll be around for that is anybody's guess. Bare feet and legs look fine on children. Once one gets to about 14, the charm wears thin, and age doesn't help matters all that much after that.
Carl if you like the covered legs and feet. I know you like long dresses etc. Watch "The Murdock Mysteries" if it is available in your area. It is set in the late 1800's and in Canada. Aside from the fancy long dresses and skirts the programs are pretty good as well.crfriend wrote: ↑Sun Feb 09, 2020 1:03 pmI understand the argument about summer. I also understand that I am very much alone in this regard, but I just find that one simply doesn't look "finished" or polished with bare legs. This is fine for the sort of hyper-casual style that's popular these days (aka "not giving a fig about what you look like") but highly inappropriate for any sort of dressy situation.
I accept that, and we merely have slightly divergent views based on venue. There is exquisite beauty in the human form; however, much of that is, in my opinion, better left to "more intimate" settings than letting it all hang out in public.
I would love to see more beauty moving forward. I've heard things referencing back to writings from centuries ago of the need to have more (and more appreciation of) goodness, truth, and beauty. While I appreciate practical, utilitarian solutions, we need to have beauty as well, and the two should not be seen as mutually exclusive.crfriend wrote: ↑Sun Feb 09, 2020 11:38 pm
In reflecting on my comment about the "hyper-casual" nature of what passes for modern "society" I became aware of a subtext to that which has likely been driving me for a few years now, and that's an active rebellion against what modern "society" has become -- and as that gelled in my mind I realised that what I'm seeking is a "Nouvelle Belle Epoch", a New Beautiful Age: an age where decency, civility, beauty, grace, and dignity reign. This is, of course, in direct opposition to what our current entirely vulgar, base. and boorish time represents.
If forty years is your timeframe, I'm in those two generations you're talking about. My initial thought was "conservative!? What the heck is he talking about?!" but then I realized that compared to the 60's and 70's that I've only heard about but never lived you might have a point in some respects. Still, a lot of very liberal changes happened in the 90's and on to today, whatever you may think of it.
I know quite a few rather conservative types who are onboard for restoring some formality to dress, as well as general dignity and decorum to society. Unfortunately, they tend to look to the 1950’s (or at least the glamorized TV version of it) for their inspiration for menswear. They might also draw in some inspiration from as far back as the 1920's, but that's about it, clothing wise.crfriend wrote: ↑Sun Feb 09, 2020 11:38 pm So, yes, I'm after something entirely grandiose -- an utter repudiation of baseness and banality -- and, in keeping with the meme of "Be the change you want to see in the world" have been trying, almost imperceptibly, to live that mantra. It's a losing battle, I know, but at least I'm going to go down fighting. We can -- and need to -- do better than where we are today. We owe it to ourselves, not just as lone individuals but as human beings. We can do better.
To Fred, yes, much of my aesthetic derives from the late Victorian and early Edwardian times, and I am also sensitive to the social stratification that was in force at the time. However, at least they managed to keep the overt banality at a low key, quite unlike what we're experiencing today. Also, in spite of my personal tastes for elegant and long, I am known for occasionally "going short" and thereby jarring many around me. I am very fortunate that at almost 60 I am capable of even doing so in a cogent manner. (Actually, my short looks attract more positive attention than my more staid long ones.)
So, thus go forth into the world, and with intent, determination, and resolve commit random acts of beauty, civility, grace, and dignity. You will be instantly and ineffably alone, save for those who are on the same mission. "Just sayin'." But there is something entirely satisfying about it.