I have a problem with that statement after viewing a picture on one of your other posts. In profile, you are wearing a dress, and appear to have on foundation garments that give a narrower waist, definite bustline, and possibly padded hips. While I understand that you probably, like me, have a very definite male head, and no-one is going to think you are actually female, this female silhouette,with the male persona, is extremely jarring, and I don't think it helps the general intent of this website. I have no issue with CD members as such, and indeed the definition of where the line between CD and not is subject to interpretation. For me, being able to wear any kind of clothing is liberating, but in my own mind, anything with a design feature intended for a definitely female attributes, i.e. low cut neckline that only works with a bust and/or cleavage, is where that line is. Therefore my tops are male, or can pass for such. I could see myself wearing a female top if it fitted, just for the colour or decoration, but cannot see the point of one where the neckline is cut to enhance breasts, or wearing breast forms.grlyboy wrote:i got hollered at on here for introducing myself here as a crossdresser. i am a man that wears female attire. some everyday and some on occassion. i will leave it at that. i do consider myself to be a cd. but i am not trying to id myself as a woman.
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I would therefore ask, you to please consider removing the picture.
Agreed, but I think how you identify is not what this site is about, I would like others to give their opinion. I am actually glad that there is some discussion of crossdressing so far, as I think a blanket ban is not particularly helpful. I don't feel examples of what I consider to be actual crossdressing are helpful either. I really feel conflicted about posting this, I am not one to push my attitudes on others, and I defer to the general attitudes of the members in total. I do want to put my own views out there though, as not doing so is tantamount to consent. Please, if this post gets you upset, or annoyed, then yes, say so, and explain why, but do consider your words carefully.grlyboy wrote:however a person views themselves is true to that person. it works if you work it.