Not sure what I had in mind.

Discussion of fashion elements and looks that are traditionally considered somewhat "femme" but are presented in a masculine context. This is NOT about transvestism or crossdressing.
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Not sure what I had in mind.

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Or perhaps I mean that I'm not sure how to make it work.

At what point does a dress become a tunic, or a shirt?

Browsing through the local thrift store, found a nice wool wrap skirt that will work well, moved over to the dress rack to see if there was anything there, came across a "lady's short dress" Wouldn't normally have looked at it, but from the top the style looked possible, as it has a fairly high buttoned collar. After thinking about it, took it to the changing room. Grey, stretchy, broad collar, buttons stretching down to just below belt line on me. Problem is... the hem finishes about 6" below that. Very short on me, as a dress anyway. The price was right, so I took it, along with a pair of stretch pants, ( yoga pants essentially ) that I saw on the way to the register. When I got home put them on together, the dress is too small, by a fraction, the really abbreviated sleeves are slightly snug, so wearing it with the buttons done up makes it pull at the armpits. Top button undone is just about perfect, and doesn't make it look like I'm trying to display cleavage that isn't there. The cut at the hip is just a little roomier, so the whole thing wants to creep up a bit. I'm thinking about elasticising the hem, or possibly weighting it. With the stretch pants, which by some miracle are an almost perfect fit, ( snug, but the seams work for a male form ) it becomes acceptable from the point of view of public decency. I tried it on it's own, and it's fine, if startling, while standing up, sitting is possible, but requires great care, unless you're around very, close friends.

Personally, I like it on me. It's far enough outside the norms though, that it requires more courage than I have at the moment. The look though, is something I want to pursue, it reminds me of the Star Trek "skant" but looks better to my eyes. I think I want to have something made, slightly longer, in a similar style, very strong colour(s), to be worn with similar stretch pants ( heavy tights essentially ) under. The cut and fit of this one are just snug enough, at the wrong points, that it highlights the fact that I do not have a particularly good example of the classic inverted male triangle shape. I feel I have a bit more hip than is normally considered masculine. I have fairly broad shoulders so I'm not too unhappy, but exaggerating it the way this dress does, makes it looks like I'm trying to pass, as our crossdressing friends say.

I'll be taking some pictures over the next week, I may even post them once I've seen them. You have been warned! :shock: When I do, would like opinions on it, and suggestions for changes and improvements.
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Re: Not sure what I had in mind.

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ps, I have worn clothes that have been rather snug and they get uncomfortable for anything more than short periods. The stitching also tends to give way after a while. But, you could always deconstruct the garment and use it as a pattern ( which you would modify to overcome the tight points and shortness ) and then make some more in the colours and patterns that you would want. I don't know if you are any good at sewing. Just a thought.

I have a yellow short dress ( what I call a tunic ) a bit like a long T-shirt ( ends about upper thigh ) with the lower part flared. MOH gave me it and I wear it around the house with baggy shorts or on its own ( with underwear ) if no-one else is around.
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Re: Not sure what I had in mind.

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Yes, I was planing on using this as a guide for an alternative "tunic"

It's not that snug, the material is quite stretchy, I don't think it would become uncomfortable, I can't see the stitching giving way either. It feels very nice to wear, would be quite cool, I think. I am imagining a material that is about as stretchy as this one, but a little firmer, more like a shirt or pant material. Make the cut a tiny bit boxier, have to think about exactly how long, and how to work the hemline and cut around the back, for sitting.

The current length is enough that I can stand and walk about with no issues, assuming no-one is trying, to look up it, stairs might be an issue, but I don't really care from a personal point of view if someone gets a flash of underwear, just don't want to be challenged for corrupting minors or similar.
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