I am less than convinced by this assertion. Men may not expect unorthodox styles of dressing to be accepted, but every experience we read of here suggests they are wrong; society does not give a hoot. The fear is between the ears.jamie001 wrote:Essentially, I am the same as a woman that wear flannel shirts, jeans, and combat boots. There is no difference except that the Tomboy is accepted by society while the JaneGirl (opposite of Tomboy) like myself is not completely accepted.
If that was your experience then I pity you, however I've never come across parents that stupid. Sure many will try to encourage their son to do "boy things" but I have certainly seen parents who find it cute when their boy plays with a Barbie doll or dresses up as a princess.jamie001 wrote:Think about this: We have all heard parents say "look at Cindy, she is such a cute little Tomboy playing with those GI Joes and Army Trucks". On the other hand you will NEVER hear this: "look at johnny, he is such a cute little JaneGirl playing with those Barbie Dolls and makeup kit." In the real world, the parents or relatives would slap the crap out of Johnny and tell him to stop acting like a girl!!
Abhorrent??? Really??? I think your fears are causing you to seriously overstate things.jamie001 wrote:Boys are taught at an early age that emulation of any female traits is abhorrent behavior and is forbidden!
Do you work for the Daily Mail by any chance? I think you are overstating the case again. Kids like to feel that they "belong" and will generally try to be part of the herd; it is rare that this is beaten into them as far more subtle pressures usually do the job long before violence is invoked.jamie001 wrote:When boys get to school age, the other boys will beat this behavior out of them because they are self policing.
At last you finally wrote something I can agree with.jamie001 wrote:Everyone should have freedom of expression including men.
Ian.