Arguing with him likely would not "do the trick" as it's perceived as "unmanly" to lose an argument. Instead, I'd posit that gentle nudges toward acceptance and understanding may be the order of the day. He'll not likely "get it" quickly, but you may be able to plant the seeds that'll germinate later on.DALederle wrote:Eric, my step-son, is a well intentioned person but just set in ultra manly ways. He's never said anything to his mother or I so I may be mis-interpeting what I perceive as his actions. [...]
[H]e is [also] a contributor to our household. [...]
I feel it would be an ungrateful act on my part to argue with him right now!
The whole crossdressing thing from earlier on may prove a bit of a barrier, but if pushed, I'd merely suggest mentioning the comfort that skirts offer and if he pushes back, you might suggest that he give it a go; light skirts are more comfortable than a towel-wrap following a shower, and that's something he's likely familiar with. In short, lead; don't follow, or, worse (when it comes to the "masculine mind"), compel -- seduce instead.
It sounds like he's a pretty decent chap. Have a few beers with him, if he's worried about things just explain your rationale. He'll either come 'round or not, and if he doesn't the adult thing to do is for the two of you to "agree to disagree" on the matter.Unlike the other children, who we gave shelter to as adults, Eric actually pays monthly room and board as well as doing the chores I cited.
Good luck.
