FloralSkirt, you have so far disrespected the SkirtCafe community by violating many of its rules in a short timespan. We only have seven, so that's pretty impressive. In particular:
Getting personal with Uncle Al and crfriend was completely inappropriate, and other members took notice and pointed this out. You do not know either man very well, and you therefore have no way to know what they are thinking or fearing.1. ABOVE ALL: Respect for others at all times. No profanity/swearing. No personal insults.
In this Cafe, we hold civil discourse, not drunken brawls. No one is allowed to treat any Cafe member like you treated Uncle Al. Everyone at the Cafe knows this, and that is why they refrained from adding fuel to the fire and taking your head off. I am always pleasantly impressed and thankful at the level of restraint in the face of provocation that we have from the vast majority of our members. This is a really amazing group of guys (and gals too) that I've gotten to know over the years!
Consider this is your very last warning on this rule. Respect for others is our number one rule, and we simply cannot tolerate disrespect from anyone, to anyone, for any reason.
What more to say?3. SkirtCafe is a family-friendly fashion forum. No adult material. No discussion of clothing not meant to be seen in public, unless it affects clothing that IS meant to be seen. Underwear is NOT public fashion.
OK, it's not a hard and fast rule. But it is an organizing principle of SkirtCafe. We are not about cross dressing or about presenting (from the waist up, down or sideways) as anything other than men. Although our members vary in their opinions on crossdressing, we have no opinion on the topic as a community --- other than this is not the place to discuss it. This is also not the place to discuss modern dance, libertarian theology, World War II history, classic cars, or a host of other topics.this is NOT a transvestite or crossdresser forum. We are committed to a fundamentally masculine gender identity
Others have told you this, and now I have too. This is a community based on a particular topic, and that topic has been clearly delineated on the masthead and in the attached thread. And crossdressing is not part of that topic. There are hundreds of crossdressing websites. If crossdressing is what you are interested in, then you will have no problem finding amenable on-line communities. There is no need to antagonize our members.
The last person who came in with almost exactly your attitude did not last very long. He was placed on moderated status after he insisted on continued violations of our number one rule (and others too). For your edification --- and so we don't have to repeat it all --- here is one of the threads he started:
http://www.skirtcafe.org/forums/viewtop ... &sk=t&sd=a
You can use the "Advanced Search" feature in the upper right to find other things he said, and how our members responded to him.
OK, consider this your last warning. The other moderators are watching you very closely, and will not hesitate to take any action they deem necessary.
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