Lifeboatkeith wrote:...my gf is a bit prude and would kick me out for definite if i mentioned that I like to wear skirts, for now I think i'll keep it my secret until I feel the time is right
Just to emphasize what others have said: this won't work in the long term.
If the others here will forgive the reference to "orthodox" crossdressing, this is a situation that comes up with crossdressers all the time. Go to Crossdressers.com if you want to see the experiences there, including the girlfriends'/wives' point of view. (In contrast to SkirtCafe, a number of women post there.)
Basically, as crfriend has said, if you keep wearing skirts and keep your girlfriend, she is going to find out, and you are going to have to deal with your girlfriend's attitude towards men wearing skirts (and whatever else you are doing.) That will not get any easier with time. And if you wait, you will have the additional, and more serious, issue of "why did you lie to me?" By all accounts, the damage to trust is much, much harder to heal than any upset at a "perversion."
Also, if it is truly inevitable that she is going to "throw you out" (do you mean by this that you live in her home?) once she finds out, isn't it better to have it happen sooner than later?
I think that you really have only three choices: give up the skirt-wearing forever, give up the girlfriend, or face your girlfriend's attitude.
-- AMM