Skirts, not clumps in Holland - Introducing Mr Oost
Posted: Sun Nov 27, 2016 8:45 pm
Dear all,
Some weeks ago, Mr Oost decided it was enough.
I had been breaking my head for years over the question why I get instantly peace of mind when I put on a skirt.
Many books were read, many sites were visited, and I just couldn’t find the anwser.
Left me with only option: give back this question to society and start wearing skirts in public.
Well, a lot of water had passed under the bridge of Arnhem (you know, from The bridge too Far movie) and nothing really happened.
I did make some bike tours in a skirt, went into shops in a skirt, visited family in a skirt and put a number of pictures taken on Facebook.
A lot of positive reactions were the result.
All I wanted was to get back to society and join in, in stead of isolate myself with my Skirt Desire.
What I got is that I just blend in easily.
Yes, people notice, and that is all.
And yes, it is weird or aberrant.
But wearing holes in your trousers (Current fashion in Holland) is that as well.
A big win is that Mr Oost lost his shame and doesn’t has to hesitate anymore.
Mr Oost has won a world where he can join in, wearing trousers or a skirt.
Mr Oost got to this wisdom based on one book by Alfred Adler, named Menschenkenntnis. (Understanding Human Nature in english)
And of all other books read earlier, of course.
But in this book, everything came together in the chapter about Aggressive Character Traits of no aggressive nature.
Being indecisive or being shy: I never considered this as aggressiveness.
Boom: Adler showed me convincingly that I was pushing away people interested in me.
People who wanna become friends, I turned them down.
People in my club, I did not show up, as I had my Skirt stress once again.
There was some hostility in it indeed.
And he introduced the term Masculine Protest.
I regard this as the desire to be a little less masculine as the masses.
Again: the reason is unknown to me . . .
So this is Mr Oost, a man wearing skirts, pantyhoses and small earrings, in Holland.
I think Mr Oost is a happy men since he turned this corner.
And would have been much more worse of if he hadn’t .
Hope to speak to you soon.
Some weeks ago, Mr Oost decided it was enough.
I had been breaking my head for years over the question why I get instantly peace of mind when I put on a skirt.
Many books were read, many sites were visited, and I just couldn’t find the anwser.
Left me with only option: give back this question to society and start wearing skirts in public.
Well, a lot of water had passed under the bridge of Arnhem (you know, from The bridge too Far movie) and nothing really happened.
I did make some bike tours in a skirt, went into shops in a skirt, visited family in a skirt and put a number of pictures taken on Facebook.
A lot of positive reactions were the result.
All I wanted was to get back to society and join in, in stead of isolate myself with my Skirt Desire.
What I got is that I just blend in easily.
Yes, people notice, and that is all.
And yes, it is weird or aberrant.
But wearing holes in your trousers (Current fashion in Holland) is that as well.
A big win is that Mr Oost lost his shame and doesn’t has to hesitate anymore.
Mr Oost has won a world where he can join in, wearing trousers or a skirt.
Mr Oost got to this wisdom based on one book by Alfred Adler, named Menschenkenntnis. (Understanding Human Nature in english)
And of all other books read earlier, of course.
But in this book, everything came together in the chapter about Aggressive Character Traits of no aggressive nature.
Being indecisive or being shy: I never considered this as aggressiveness.
Boom: Adler showed me convincingly that I was pushing away people interested in me.
People who wanna become friends, I turned them down.
People in my club, I did not show up, as I had my Skirt stress once again.
There was some hostility in it indeed.
And he introduced the term Masculine Protest.
I regard this as the desire to be a little less masculine as the masses.
Again: the reason is unknown to me . . .
So this is Mr Oost, a man wearing skirts, pantyhoses and small earrings, in Holland.
I think Mr Oost is a happy men since he turned this corner.
And would have been much more worse of if he hadn’t .
Hope to speak to you soon.