"Straight, hetero-normative" sounds slightly better then "boring straight guy". And it seemed that the point of "style choice" was lost somewhere in translation as it always does. A skirt for me is simply that -- a style choice -- it is not a signifier of anything, and certainly nothing of a sexual nature. My behaviour does not change when I'm wearing a skirt, my voice does not change, I do not act effeminate, my demeanour does not change. Why should I have to label myself as trans-* simply to exercise a style choice?Myopic Bookworm wrote: ↑Mon Oct 03, 2022 1:21 pm(a) ...if I understand you correctly, I think your "class" is under some social pressure, because although being straight is accepted, there is increasing negative reaction to being "heteronormative", though it is a popular position among the unthinking masses, because it effortlessly re-asserts the privilege of the majority. And those who are heteronormative are,
On the notion of straight guys being "under pressure", they have been for decades, first by the radical feminists who managed to get us branded as monsters by repeated use of the hateful term "[rad-fem hate-speech redacted]", our legal status has been reduced to that of being little more than wallets, sperm-donors, and, increasingly, prisoners.