Update on my Wife

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UA, my deepest condolences to you. I have dreaded the appearance of this thread fearing the worst. As others have said she is now free from the ailments that she has been suffering. Take your time to grieve and time will ease your sorrow. You will meet her again and will continue your relationship in another place.
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Thank you, one and all! It is much easier to write about than
it is to actually TALK about. I can "Keep It Together" when I'm
writing but, when talking with someone - I start to lose it,
BIG TIME.


As Carl has mentioned to me - - - -
"Take a break from the Cafe'.
Allow yourself time to get your head together.
The Cafe' will still be here."

So friends.............Until next time - - - -

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Sad to hear of your great loss.
I will be thinking of you, Anthony
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So sorry to hear - my thoughts and prayers go out to you.
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Please accept my condolences. I wish you a lot of courage in this sorrowful time.
Everyone should be honest and prudent: to keep promises and, on principle, never to promise anything to anyone.
Sorry for my English. I try not to make spelling mistakes, but for this reason my writing is very slow.

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I'm sorry to hear this UA. But we know she's no longer suffering now.
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I, like all of here are saddened to read about Debbie's passing, from myself and MOH, please accept our condolences at this time.

Our thoughts etc are with you and your family at this time.

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My condolances for your loss, don't forget yourself now.
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Don't worry about "losing it" Al, it is part of the healing process. My eyes tear too in thinking of the struggle you both endured and hope you may now move forward in celebrating her life and the life you had together. Holding you both in the light and looking forward to hearing from you when the time feels right.
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Please accept my condolences.
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You have my sympathies, Al. Yesterday was my mom's birthday. She died last September. Today was my son's birthday. He died a year and a half ago. Although we have a sure hope the next life will be better the tears still come as we miss people.
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Uncle Al wrote: Thu Aug 05, 2021 6:34 pm :angel: It is with a broken heart that I write, my wife is now an Angel :angel:

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I'm so sorry for your loss of Deb my Prayers are with you and your family.
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Sorry for your loss.

Don't worry about us, the cafe, or anything else, unless you need the distraction. Hang in there, let it all out, and do what you need to.

Be assured you both will be prayed for. May she rest in peace.
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My Deepest sympathy too, take a break, but take time for your self.
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