For a £400.00 item, you could embroider your own just how you like and save.
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Of note in this case is that the skirt is only one facet that one needs to deal with -- it's the overall look that will make or break the matter. Thus the entire integrated outfit (costume, look, what have you) needs to work as a cogent whole -- and that is entirely within the remit of The Skirt Cafe.Coder wrote: ↑Thu Feb 13, 2020 12:45 am[... O]ne thing I found out quickly the week of experimenting *leaving* work - was it was a lot of effort to put together a combination I felt comfortable in. Matching and so forth. Now... I know what my professional skirt style is - but tops are something I don't have a handle on. This has also caused a major hesitation on my part, something I haven't written about but would prefer to discuss in a different thread.
One of the wonderful things here is that the membership has a vast range of chosen aesthetics. Peruse the "Pics and Looks" section for a good snapshot of the cross-section. Many of the folks here are quite good at putting entire looks together; you can learn this, too, but you have to listen to your own heart and sense of style. Most of all, delve deep into who you are to find what you want, what you find attractive, and what you can carry well. That exploration will yield riches.
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As I'm working my courage up to skirt at work, another aspect of skirt wearing that I'm interested in is what I'd call "artsy" skirts. These could be anything from a fun print (I bought this one used inexpensively, plan to wear it this summer):
I glanced at this hoping there might be inspiration for my own wish to move past my mostly 'dull, masculine-like' selections. Found the replies focused on getting the whole outfit right a bit overwhelming for my fashion naivete, as each seemed OK for selected occasions. The first seems nicely 'dressy'; the second a quite casual summer shopping trip; and the third...well, .... party on!
Unless it is a uniform or safety issue, I cannot see needing or seeking permission to choose what you wear! Let HR have the headaches and publicity if someone can raise it to the level of viable concern--it would give you a huge opportunity to use a mega-horn for men in skirts!
Hopefully I can post more examples from my own collection... I would guess about 30% of my skirts fall under a less masculine appearance. Whether they are floras, bright colors, or funky plaids. It’s probably going to take some time. At the moment I’m working through my drabber skirts.Faldaguy wrote: ↑Mon Feb 24, 2020 3:14 amI glanced at this hoping there might be inspiration for my own wish to move past my mostly 'dull, masculine-like' selections. Found the replies focused on getting the whole outfit right a bit overwhelming for my fashion naivete, as each seemed OK for selected occasions. The first seems nicely 'dressy'; the second a quite casual summer shopping trip; and the third...well, .... party on!
I was curious about “when would someone wear one of these” if only because I don’t have an intuitive grasp on judging appropriateness of a fun skirt. Or rather, I’m not certain I have a grasp on it, and was curious about what others thought .