Getting there?
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Getting there?
I keep seeing men in shorts and tights, something that would have raised eyebrows ten years ago. This garb is now regarded as normal - no one reacts. Importantly, the men wearing these tights think they are doing something normal and not breaking any taboos. Then, when you think about it, when we wear skirts .... no one reacts but there is a realisation that we are breaking with tradition. I think it is just a question of more of us doing this to make it as 'normal' as the main in tights and shorts. We must be nearly there.
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You could be right about us being nearly there. But, then again, it could also be said that the public at large is apathetic to men in skirts, too wrapped in their own lives and affairs to pay much, if any attention to us. Hell, I parade around in dresses and no one cares. However, that indifference could also be seen as a positive in terms of acceptance as people don’t get worked up about us wearing clothes from the women’s side of the aisle. Well, that’s my opinion anyway.
I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman.
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I doubt skirt wearing men will ever catch on with the masses, but that's okay, as long as they leave me alone to do my thing.
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I have the feeling I am getting there. I still have some road to travel but most of it is a matter of time. If "they" are getting there is not very important to me. It is their loss.
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I've not seen men in shorts and tights, and seldom see any in skirts or kilts...unless I look in the mirror. But I like the idea and may try it out whenever the weather cools enough to wear tights...probably late November.
As a matter of fact, the sun DOES shine out of my ...
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“You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.” -David Foster Wallace, from Infinite Jest.JeffB1959 wrote:You could be right about us being nearly there. But, then again, it could also be said that the public at large is apathetic to men in skirts, too wrapped in their own lives and affairs to pay much, if any attention to us. Hell, I parade around in dresses and no one cares. However, that indifference could also be seen as a positive in terms of acceptance as people don’t get worked up about us wearing clothes from the women’s side of the aisle. Well, that’s my opinion anyway.
As a matter of fact, the sun DOES shine out of my ...
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Define "tights"
Do you mean with feet, or some kind of athletic wear? Solid fabric,that is opaque, or sheer?
Do you mean with feet, or some kind of athletic wear? Solid fabric,that is opaque, or sheer?
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All those qualify as tights, but I'll presume, in a fashion sense, it is the same as women have been wearing beneath shorts, usually denim cutoffs (Daisy Dukes), which would be other than lycra athletic tights, or knit leggings. Something measured by denier, probably. Typically black. I have a pair of theatrical fishnet tights I might consider.partlyscot wrote:Define "tights"
Do you mean with feet, or some kind of athletic wear? Solid fabric,that is opaque, or sheer?
As a matter of fact, the sun DOES shine out of my ...
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Yes, I think it is a positive; better than people caring in a negative way.JeffB1959 wrote:However, that indifference could also be seen as a positive in terms of acceptance as people don’t get worked up about us wearing clothes from the women’s side of the aisle. Well, that’s my opinion anyway.
It would be sad if something had to become poular for people to wear it without criticism.moonshadow wrote:I doubt skirt wearing men will ever catch on with the masses, but that's okay, as long as they leave me alone to do my thing.
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I've not seen men with tights and shorts but on several occasions, seen men with 'distressed' jeans (ie with holes and ripped areas)and it was obvious through these holes and rips, that the fellow was wearing black opaque tights.
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Went out for a meal the other day with my parents wearing shorts with tights ,I thought they wouldn't notice but they made several comments .I asked them if they were ok with it ,mum said yes she said it's the skirt i have a problem with .
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But you were not wearing a skirt, correct? I'm missing something here...eightofnine wrote:Went out for a meal the other day with my parents wearing shorts with tights ,I thought they wouldn't notice but they made several comments .I asked them if they were ok with it ,mum said yes she said it's the skirt i have a problem with .
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moonshadow wrote:But you were not wearing a skirt, correct? I'm missing something here...eightofnine wrote:Went out for a meal the other day with my parents wearing shorts with tights ,I thought they wouldn't notice but they made several comments .I asked them if they were ok with it ,mum said yes she said it's the skirt i have a problem with .
she just meant that she has a problem with me when i wear a skirt
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Oh yeah, I see where I misread. My apologies.eightofnine wrote:moonshadow wrote:But you were not wearing a skirt, correct? I'm missing something here...eightofnine wrote:Went out for a meal the other day with my parents wearing shorts with tights ,I thought they wouldn't notice but they made several comments .I asked them if they were ok with it ,mum said yes she said it's the skirt i have a problem with .
she just meant that she has a problem with me when i wear a skirt
My mom's the same way.
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Maybe I'm drifting a bit, but a guy, wearing fancy cowboy boots and strategically ripped jeans asked my why I was wearing a kilt, even though I'm not a Scot. I looked at his boots and replied, why are you wearing cowboy boots, even though you aren't a cowboy, and don't even have a horse. He replied, it's fashionable and he likes the look and feel. I replied, that is exactly why I'm wearing a skirt. He agreed that it was the same thing, just he hadn't seen it before.
I think we are getting there.
I think we are getting there.