Difficulties with partners

General discussion of skirt and kilt-based fashion for men, and stuff that goes with skirts and kilts.
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Thank you keystone and FFA for your positive remarks. I think that I'll stipulate that I be buried in that skirt ( or cremated in it ). keystone, I suggested knee length because it's a look that is universally good on 99.9% of men [0], it's long enough to cover that which should not be seen in public but short enough to generate interest!!!! But I have denim skirts as short as the ones Anthony wears but then, like him, I have the legs to accommodate such a skirt. Also knee length may be aesthetically more pleasing to YOH as being closer to shorts length as you said. Only a suggestion, mate, it's your call, after all.

I think that the skirt is more successful because it's a complex mix of materials but retains a woollen feel. It's lined and really has the feel and look of quality belying its Matalan origins. The actual label says Be Beau. A-line, size 16 and 16" to hem. I must admit that it does make me feel just that bit more chic.

[0] Unless they have really deformed calves in which case they are in the 0.1%.
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I'm holding my breath but may have reached a good milestone with the wife.

It's been awhile since I've worn a kilt around the wife. Tonight I decided to wear my utility kilt while we are doing some heavy spring cleaning.
No change in voice tone, no remarks or comments negative or positive what so ever. Or change in mood.

I think she rather enjoyed it when she took the shop vac nozzle ran it up the back of my leg and let the vacuum nozzle stick to my butt.
She had that mischievous glimmer in her eye.
Maybe she is starting to like the idea of her man in a kilt.

I'm going to tread slowly, and keep you posted.
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I have no problem wearing a skirt around my wife. She understands that they are my choice for comfort and agrees they should be "allowed" by society. I wear a skirt nearly every day unless we are visiting with friends or relatives at home or elsewhere. She often tells me her opinion on which skirts for various locations. She has good taste for what looks good or appropriate.

It works both ways because I give her my advice on what to wear for which occasions.

She recognizes the discomfort of a crotch inseam.

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misha, you have to remember that you were around the house at the time. That, and her being with you when you go out are two different beasts. MOH is broadly accepting of my skirts around the house providing that I don't wear then "all the time" as she often accuses me of. But outside, never in her eyes, even though she knows I do, and never with her. I've accepted this situation and it may never change but .... miracules do happen.
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It's time for a update.
For years I have been telling you about my wife's total opposition skirts.

She might be coming around a little bit.

In the Last month. On two different occasions she has let me wear items that from the ladies department.
First incident, we were at a big box store, they had the Christmas clothing on clearance.
Specifically ladies Christmas turtlenecks.
At 2 dollars you cannot go wrong. She had scooped up several different ones for her. She looked at me and asked "you want one"
Huh??? I was a little bit in shock. She asked again.
I replied with disinterested "yes, I guess so"
Secretly I was considering coming back later on
To get one while she wasn't with me.
So we both have matching red Christmas plaid turtlenecks.

Second incident was with socks. Till now I have never bought or worn ladies socks, (I have tried leggings and tights, don't care for them, that's another story for another thread)
We had been at Costco, and my wife bought two, 4 packs of women's boot socks. Soft cotton blend.

They are variegated Color cotton , and come in assorted colors. One Light blue and white pair, one grey and white, and two black and white pairs.

I made zero comments about the socks, not really on my radar anyway. socks are socks pretty much. After we got home with them. She told me l could have the black and white ones out of both packs.

??????? What??????

We both have worn the socks several times, fairly good socks all in all. A few days ago I commented that "that was surprised she would let me wear them, knowing that she does not approve of some of my other clothing choices". She said that she felt that they were unisex enough that I could wear them.

While it's not an OPEN endorsement to skirt up, I do feel that she might be starting to open up just a tad.
Now I'm trying to decide how to proceed.
I don't want to torpedo the progress. And our marriage and happiness.

below is a picture of the shirt and one of the socks.
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Does the wife wear skirts dresses and not want competition ?
Or is it just pants - slacks - and shorts ?

You must both wear the same size in socks - women's sizing in socks is generally one smaller size number than men's
and may pose a constriction at the ankle - keep that in mind when buying socks - small socks don't fit large feet !

And YES those Big Box stores sure have some real bargains - membership has its advantages.
"Kilt-On" -or- as the case may be "Skirt-On" !
WHY ?
Isn't wearing a kilt enough?
Well a skirt will do in a pinch!
Make mine short and don't you dare think of pinching there !

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r.m.anderson wrote:
Fri Jan 24, 2020 2:00 am
Does the wife wear skirts dresses and not want competition ?
Or is it just pants - slacks - and shorts ?

You must both wear the same size in socks - women's sizing in socks is generally one smaller size number than men's
and may pose a constriction at the ankle - keep that in mind when buying socks - small socks don't fit large feet !

And YES those Big Box stores sure have some real bargains - membership has its advantages.
I did some thinking and pondering. My wife wears skirts roughly 15% to 20% of the time.
And dresses maby 1% to 2 % of the time.

Since I started wearing kilts around her a few years back the percentage might have gone up.
Pre me wearing kilts, she might have just worn them on Sundays and formal events. Now I see her wearing them in the middle of the week.

I m certain it's not a competition thing.
She says I have nice legs. I have contemplated saying "all the more reason for me to wear skirts"
Some how I don't think that would go over well.

With her It has been the usual objections. the men don't wear skirts, It's a sin, it's effeminate, it's gay, it's a perv, it's you want to have a sex change thing.
While I have stressed my thoughts that it is none of the above, it falls on closed ears.


Yea most ladies socks look way too small. for my 10.5 men's shoe feet. Socks and leg wear Have never been a draw for me. While these socks are good, I doubt I am going to start a collection of ladies socks and leg wear. I love the freedom of bare legs.
The Costco socks were a little snug the first wearing. But relaxed fairly quickly. They are a fairly loose weave.
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