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by Coder
Wed Feb 28, 2024 11:24 pm
Forum: In the News / Advocacy
Topic: More gender neutral retail
Replies: 22
Views: 1008

Re: More gender neutral retail

So they have had a male model, and they are open to male customers, even if they don't seem on the face of it to be trying very hard in that direction. Their stores are in Portland (Oregon) and Los Angeles, so it would probably be surprising to see their stuff routinely listed on UK sites. On occas...
by Coder
Mon Feb 26, 2024 12:56 am
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: A change at work results in no skirting.
Replies: 15
Views: 759

Re: A change at work results in no skirting.

Sometimes I take the campus buses, and one time an instructor was observing/instructing a driver. She (instructor) was wearing 2" heels (not block!) and standing up the entire time while the student (in both senses of the word, as students drive our busses) proceeded down the road (eventually s...
by Coder
Sun Feb 25, 2024 7:47 pm
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: A change at work results in no skirting.
Replies: 15
Views: 759

Re: A change at work results in no skirting.

The problem with this is that the majority of these assessments are covert, it's rather difficult to blend in with regular passengers when you're wearing a skirt! One suggestion - wear your skirt under a beige trenchcoat while wearing a pair of these: https://i.imgur.com/K1d6Dmh.jpeg I guarantee th...
by Coder
Wed Feb 21, 2024 1:06 am
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: Where is the truth?
Replies: 13
Views: 346

Re: Where is the truth?

But this all comes down to the age-old question yet again: do we want to wear skirts to express femininity or, as in my case, do we want to see skirt-wearing redefined so as to take away the feminine connotation? These two are, I am afraid, unreconcilable. This is the zero sum game that we must con...
by Coder
Tue Feb 20, 2024 8:49 pm
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: Where is the truth?
Replies: 13
Views: 346

Re: Where is the truth?

There is no inherent reason a man can't wear a skirt other than current fashion, but there is a subliminal and primeval reason why women look good in false eyelashes and lipstick and men look ridiculous. Not trying to argue with you - but isn't this just social conditioning? How do you know this is...
by Coder
Tue Feb 20, 2024 5:51 pm
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: Where is the truth?
Replies: 13
Views: 346

Re: Where is the truth?

According to some, femininity is considered inferior in the male, that mens clothes are considered unisex while female clothes are exclusively for women. A man wearing a skirt would in some places still be ridiculed and shamed. I don't think people consciously think this way. I tried to convince so...
by Coder
Tue Feb 20, 2024 5:50 am
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: Women wearing skirts
Replies: 35
Views: 2084

Re: Women wearing skirts

I have to wear pants for my job all week and it helps me (disconnect?) keep work separate in my mind." Coder, that could very well come from a guy. LOL - I had the exact same thought. I almost put this under the silly reasons thread, but a mental break from one mode of dress into another proba...
by Coder
Mon Feb 19, 2024 11:23 pm
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: Women wearing skirts
Replies: 35
Views: 2084

Re: Women wearing skirts

I posted this in another thread, but overheard a public conversation this weekend. A lady said, "Oh, I didn't wear a skirt today because I was running later earlier, but I like to wear skirts on the weekends because I have to wear pants for my job all week and it helps me (disconnect?) keep wor...
by Coder
Mon Feb 19, 2024 12:54 am
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: Coach Skirt with Male Model
Replies: 4
Views: 272

Re: Coach Skirt with Male Model

Pretty sure. One of the models is named Steven and has hairy legs but long hair. Oh, good catch on the legs, I saw the name but was a bit “?”. Still, not sure though with the legs - and they don’t list this in mens which I think is the bigger issue, if their intent is to sell a mens skirt. Ah, I ta...
by Coder
Sun Feb 18, 2024 11:46 pm
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: Coach Skirt with Male Model
Replies: 4
Views: 272

Re: Coach Skirt with Male Model

Are you sure? The skirt is listed in the Women’s section and neither models look male.
by Coder
Sun Feb 18, 2024 8:53 pm
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: Out and About -- In the World at Large
Replies: 3466
Views: 293272

Re: Out and About -- In the World at Large

Went to the yarn store to buy a row counter, also stayed for their knit together. I wore a heavy canvas green below knee skirt, grey marled tights, black boots, and a mustard/cream striped jumper. Was very welcoming as before, no odd stares or reactions even though I go by my name - which is unambig...
by Coder
Sat Feb 17, 2024 10:36 pm
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: Sightings "in the wild"
Replies: 1722
Views: 239121

Re: Sightings "in the wild"

rode_kater wrote:
Faldaguy wrote: Sat Feb 17, 2024 6:01 am Why not a simple "I like your style" as we all enjoy confirmation & a sense we may be doing something worthwhile for all the great unwashed out there yet!
I like this one, I'll try to remember it.
Same! Could lead to a conversation and is a positive approach.
by Coder
Sat Feb 17, 2024 8:17 pm
Forum: Off Topic
Topic: Encouragement
Replies: 9
Views: 305

Re: Encouragement

But dare you suggest a change in her appearance and... well let's just say I'm sure the fallout would be fierce and dealt swiftly. Even without that in mind, I wouldn't even try. Why should I try to change her to fit my whims? She's not a doll to be played with; she's another human being! What gall...
by Coder
Sat Feb 17, 2024 6:21 pm
Forum: Off Topic
Topic: Encouragement
Replies: 9
Views: 305

Re: Encouragement

Last night, I got a chance to chat with her "co-conspirator" on the "makeover" theme But dare you suggest a change in her appearance and... well let's just say I'm sure the fallout would be fierce and dealt swiftly. (of course - I'm not suggesting anyone tell anyone else how to ...