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That outfit sounds really good to me. I have a black hoodie dress from OASIS which I wear with tights and Doc Martens and that can be quite subtle especially if worn with black opaque tights. The various hoodie and sweatshirt dresses out there can work pretty well for most body shapes. On one occasi...

I discovered 'nightys' a couple of years ago, and I do mean night shirts, and agree they are brilliant for sleeping in. I've struggled to find long sleeved versions but I wouldn't wear anything else in bed, well not that I'll admit to here! ;). So , I'm a part time kiltie but funnily enough I spend ...

My most consequential discoveries are: People like the authentic me (the one who wears “womenswear” everywhere more than the socially acceptable me (the one who wears pants or shorts as he is supposed to). Because people value authenticity and instinctively applaud and support the people who live t...

Ive not seen any other men wearing skirts where I live. I have seen a couple of fully crossdressed guys presenting as female but no another me! It would be a confidence boost to see others.

Your post made me smile. When I wear skirts at home I go outside with rubbish as often as possible just to get that sensation of being out and about and everything is ok. I particular like it if someone walks by and sees me or if the Amazon guy turns up! Like a lot of posters I love the feeling of t...

The first time out the comfort and freedom for me was breathtaking. When I have ventured out nobody seems to care but I do think they still 'notice'. But that's in a small town I suspect in London or a large city it would feel much more comfortable. I think the single most important 'discovery' is s...

I meant to post this before Christmas but got side tracked with other stuff! I was at a Conference in London last month with several hundred delegates and there was a man in his late 30s / early 40s who attended both days in what looked like a Boden or Seasalt tunic dress, leggings and ankle boots. ...

I have it is a real issue for her and we’ve been married for 33 years. It is of course a real issue for me too, increasingly frustrating. What's her perspective? Has she made any ultimatums? We have discussed it at length and she knows the detail. We've been on quite a journey I suppose because in ...

I have it is a real issue for her and we’ve been married for 33 years. It is of course a real issue for me too, increasingly frustrating.

I would love to be able to wear short to long skirts, with tights and boots/flats whenever I liked. As in the photo below. Nothing to eye catching really but it feels like it will never be accepted as ok. Certainly not by my wife!

Courage certainly comes from within and people need varying degrees of it to overcome the prejudices and bigotry we find in our society as men wanting to wear skirts and any clothing categorised as feminine. Everyone has a different context. At 58 I’ve figured out that my largely suppressed compulsi...

Tights, opaque and shear and skirts, denim, cord and utility kilts. Everything else tends to be more conventionally male. Like many I don’t think clothes have a gender and the way society has defined them defies logic. Also like many Im mot brave enough to confront the prejudices of my wife and fami...

You are very lucky to have such a supportive wife. are not tempted at all to go out in public?

Big and Bashful wrote:
> Welcome to the mob! I feel the same, I don't have any desire to look or
> pass as female, I just like wearing skirts and loose clothing in general.

Thanks its good to know that I'm not the only one!

Hi everyone, I'm excited to join this group and hopefully meet like minded people. I've had an interest in and worn tights and skirts from a very early age and in the past have experimented with full on transvestism. Its only been relatively recently that I've started to figure out that I don't want...