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by Coder
Sat Aug 23, 2025 3:17 pm
Forum: Changes at the Cafe
Topic: Slow Site
Replies: 16
Views: 444

Re: Slow Site

Today I've been seeing 6+ second load times for the initial page, and then any dynamically loaded asset (ie, file.php) taking just as long. If it's shared hosting there is generally little you can do... however... I'm assuming you have access to the hosting control panel - sometimes there are some t...
by Coder
Thu Aug 21, 2025 4:31 pm
Forum: Changes at the Cafe
Topic: Slow Site
Replies: 16
Views: 444

Slow Site

Has anyone noticed the site being slow? I haven't profiled it, but it feels like it takes at least +1s or longer.
by Coder
Fri Aug 15, 2025 11:28 am
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: Do People Notice?
Replies: 37
Views: 2152

Re: Do People Notice?

Of course this place is not clear view of the world. I think you said it right there about mumsnet. It's a collective of like-minded people - with the same or similar agenda - BUT not the whole world - and they have their opinions. It's highly unlikely you will be able to dissuade them from any of ...
by Coder
Wed Aug 13, 2025 11:46 am
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: Causing Confusion
Replies: 11
Views: 516

Re: Causing Confusion

phathack wrote: Tue Aug 12, 2025 2:26 am Hello ugly bags of mostly water :roll:
Star Next Generation Reference : "Home Soil"
Gonna have to look that one up, but this would also work equally well for androids of the "Alien" series.
by Coder
Sun Aug 10, 2025 2:13 pm
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: Causing Confusion
Replies: 11
Views: 516

Re: Causing Confusion

Seb wrote: Sun Aug 10, 2025 1:29 pmHello you, welcome instead of Hello sir/ma'am, welcome. Our just cut the honorific all together, Hello, welcome.
And it can't even safely say Hello human as at some point we'll have androids doing our shopping for us.
by Coder
Sun Aug 10, 2025 2:10 pm
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: Causing Confusion
Replies: 11
Views: 516

Re: Causing Confusion

.....but I much prefer the company of robots. You set me thinking....run on a few years and shop assistants are now robots....how likely is the robot programming to be any better at choosing the correct pronouns for MIS than today's humans? As Seb and others wrote - a "smart" robot would ...
by Coder
Sat Aug 09, 2025 10:21 pm
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: Causing Confusion
Replies: 11
Views: 516

Re: Causing Confusion

I was at whole foods returning assorted amazon stuff at the kiosk, when a male attendant behind the desk says loudly “I can help you with those sir”. At the same time he’s speaking, he is walking around to the front and says, “erm m’am”. Honestly, the poor bloke was confused. While I was wearing ear...
by Coder
Wed Aug 06, 2025 11:43 pm
Forum: Sewing
Topic: Space skirt
Replies: 4
Views: 297

Re: Space skirt

You should 3D print a space-inspired hair clip or something of that sort.
by Coder
Mon Aug 04, 2025 6:21 pm
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: Social media idea
Replies: 0
Views: 223

Social media idea

Instagram keeps feeding me "Skirt girlies" posts. These are usually video posts of young adult women skowing off wearing skirts/dresses in various scenarios. Often a little bit silly - but generally poking good natured fun at their quirky (in this day and age) style of only wearing skirts ...
by Coder
Mon Aug 04, 2025 1:30 pm
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: Out and About -- In the World at Large
Replies: 3654
Views: 440686

Re: Out and About -- In the World at Large

I did see another male wearing a skirt (tiered boho maxi, each stripe a different fabric), but not sure how they identify and am not going to presume. But, there was a thin beard, so infer with what you will. One can still comment about liking the skirt without making any gender preference presumpt...
by Coder
Mon Aug 04, 2025 1:13 am
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: Out and About -- In the World at Large
Replies: 3654
Views: 440686

Re: Out and About -- In the World at Large

Was at Belle Isle, Detroit today with some friends. Wore a burnt orange skirt (Lee UTRA LUX COMFORT WITH FLEX-TO-GO SKORT), black t-shirt, and black sneakers, plus my egg bag. There happened to be a small art fair (100 vendors) and so we spent 2 hours perusing the stalls. Got three compliments on th...
by Coder
Mon Jul 28, 2025 9:23 pm
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: Sightings "in the wild"
Replies: 1897
Views: 357983

Re: Sightings "in the wild"

skirtyscot wrote: Fri Jul 25, 2025 9:22 pm Saw a whole load of men in skirts or dresses at a music festival a few weeks ago: the Garden Party at Kelburn in Ayrshire. Also a few people in dinosaur costumes, it was that sort of event.
The most important question is: were any of the dinosaur's wearing skirts?
by Coder
Sat Jul 26, 2025 7:21 pm
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: Wearing a skirt with jeans
Replies: 14
Views: 515

Re: Wearing a skirt with jeans

From a purely functional standpoint - it makes no sense. From a style/fashion/trend standpoint - why not? It isn't like a skirt absolutely must be worn one way. I know this board focuses more on the skirt as an alternative to pants - or as a preferred garment to be worn - but we rarely get into the ...
by Coder
Wed Jul 23, 2025 4:12 pm
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: Wearing a skirt with jeans
Replies: 14
Views: 515

Re: Wearing a skirt with jeans

I tried this once with a wrap skirt from Tovewear and a pair of jeggings (but they were jeans fabric). At the end of the day I hated it - way too much fabric, and it felt off. I'm sure we often see women wear leggings and dresses or skirts, especially when those are shorter. While not pants, I think...
by Coder
Wed Jul 23, 2025 4:07 pm
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: What happened to ...
Replies: 25
Views: 3550

Re: What happened to ...

not longer a challenge or novelty and do not have to motivation to post here anymore This is definitely something that has happened to me over time. I've sort of settled into a comfortable spot - and only when I need extra encouragement or want to show off something I sewed (where else would I?) do...