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what was I to say to the guy wearing a kilt, no shirt, biker boots, and two open carry guns? Definitely an American issue but the guns are irrelevant to the answer. What the guy was wearing is none of your or anyone else's business. No ONE has the right to offer their unsolicited views on someone e...

Don't be a snowflake, if you can't handle my opinion then that's your problem, I've got freedom of speech, you've got the right to remain silent, unless you agree with my opinion, then we can be friends, but only as long as we are in full agreement, otherwise you're just a __(insert social insult h...

I don’t see why the leap from “really baggy shorts” to “skirt” is such a leap. Ah but Coder, we are the enlightened ones, there is no "leap"! Let's say we re-branded these things as "Biskirts", your average guy would flee from them. Some of the adventurers out there might try th...

I posit a question, can an "opinion" be right or wrong simultaneously?
Shades of the long suffering Schrodinger's cat I feel.
Just asking?
I will leave the answer to the philosophers among us.
Steve.

I'd take my cue from seeing a ponytail worn with a baseball cap: you stick the tail through a convenient hole in the skirt. I cannot remember if we discussed here before but I have seen a fake fox brush coming from under a dress. The wearer was a young man in a very obvious drag outfit. Turned out ...

she assumed that I was homosexual because of the way that I was dressed. Anyone who has any knowledge of the LGBTQ community or general human sexuality would know this is wrong. However that little nugget will be with us for a long time to come yet. Skirted men just aren't seen as masculine and it ...

moonshadow wrote: ↑Fri May 26, 2023 12:40 am You don't get PRIDE from a department store or a soda bottle, PRIDE resides in the heart, and they can't take that away.

Aye Moon and it is not to be hidden in the darkness either.
Steve

moonshadow wrote: ↑Fri May 26, 2023 1:10 am I'd bet 85% of our social problems would disappear.

I'd take that bet higher Moon, 90 % to up the ante.
Mental health issues could get an even better score.
One thing, the safe bet is that it will never happen, 99.99%.
Sad, but true.
Steve.

The last verse in a poem by Robert Burns. The title is "To a Louse" O wad some Power the giftie gie us To see oursels as ithers see us! It wad frae mony a blunder free us, An' foolish notion: What airs in dress an' gait wad lea'e us, An' ev'n devotion! Kinda sums it up very nicely. Steve

Stu wrote: ↑Wed May 24, 2023 1:49 pm “That looks ridiculous dude”.

I can change but you will still be ugly/stupid/fat/________(other).
Steve.

Coder wrote: ↑Wed May 24, 2023 2:30 pm so I think you can imagine my disdain for today's modern swim suit styles

Ok Coder, so I refrain from posting a shot of me in my one then.
Certainly has to be better than the mankini in any case.
Even at that level the aisle can be crossed without much ado.
Steve.

If acceptance is to be achieved then it has to be done by men in their own right. Check the guy in GFU"s thread "the beskirted man". The guys looks cool and masculine. It's the way to go IMO. BM The ONLY way in my less than humble opinion. Room for all freestylers and creatives but n...

As far as I'm concerned everything Adidas makes I would consider it to be unisex. The only problem I see with them is their "Womens" wear stuff is just available in Pluss Size. It pretty much is Phatback which makes it quite absurd to home in on the unisex and genderless labels. Limited c...

being able to envision "myself" in skirts, and even finding that I prefer that version of myself over the male default. Getting the courage to make that same transition to "meatspace" took some time, but it definitely helped spark the motivation when I needed it. I had to use my...

BM
Just remember that dresses are just an extension of the choice.
One of my favourite female colleagues wears nothing but.
She never wears skirts at all and trousers only occasionally.
Nah, you are doing fine as it is.
Steve