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by steamman
Tue Jan 06, 2026 8:27 am
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: Language for Men's Skirts and Skirted Men
Replies: 27
Views: 42547

Re: Language for Men's Skirts and Skirted Men

I disagree. Men and women come in a huge variety of shapes and sizes, there is no “standard” men’s and women’s body shape. This has been the entire problem that the fashion industry has perpetuated, using idealised mannequins to create clothes for men and women and that has caused immense problems f...
by steamman
Mon Jan 05, 2026 3:55 pm
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: Language for Men's Skirts and Skirted Men
Replies: 27
Views: 42547

Re: Language for Men's Skirts and Skirted Men

Language for “men’s skirts”? How about just skirts? Because this is the entire problem: the assumption that clothes have a gender. They don’t, people do. I find it amazing on this forum how some people have such hangups about masculinity and femininity. The truth: it’s all made up nonsense. There is...
by steamman
Mon Jan 05, 2026 8:22 am
Forum: Freestyle Fashions
Topic: New dress
Replies: 5
Views: 249

Re: New dress

........Right decision because the dress constantly reminded me of being in it....... Part of what I love about my the clothes in my wardrobe now, is how they add to my life while I do normal day to day things. Sometimes as you walk, a skirt will grab your attention with the wind or just moving is ...
by steamman
Sun Jan 04, 2026 11:42 am
Forum: Freestyle Fashions
Topic: New dress
Replies: 5
Views: 249

New dress

So to start off the new year, I decided to wear my brand new dress that I bought in the Christmas sales. A Karen Millen zip front sleeveless black real leather midi dress. It’s a gorgeous dress that gives that “wow” feeling. I teamed it with 4” block heel knee boots. Although it’s a midi dress, it’s...
by steamman
Wed Dec 17, 2025 1:56 pm
Forum: Advocacy & Mens Skirts In the News
Topic: Skirted man in a band on Strictly
Replies: 9
Views: 498

Re: Skirted man in a band on Strictly

the chap is Andy Diagram, trumpet player in a few bands, he's played widely, including Glastonbury. His facebook page has a few photos of him, sometimes wearing maxi skirts, no specific mention, just gets on with it as if it's natural - which of course it is - unless you want to make an issue of it...
by steamman
Mon Dec 01, 2025 9:19 pm
Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
Topic: Style
Replies: 158
Views: 41120

Re: Style

"Men aren't allowed", who says? If men are really serious about gaining fashion freedom, they have to get past looking for permission and approval. At the very least decide whose opinions and approval actually matter to them. Can't do that, well, enjoy the drab because that's your choice,...
by steamman
Mon Dec 01, 2025 9:14 pm
Forum: Freestyle Fashions
Topic: UGG boots
Replies: 6
Views: 517

Re: UGG boots

The supreme irony with UGG boots is that they were originally invented by men for men to wear! Then women started to show an interest in them and guess what happened? They all of a sudden became feminine and men would no longer wear them. What does this tell you? What’s masculine or feminine is a so...
by steamman
Thu Nov 20, 2025 3:13 pm
Forum: Freestyle Fashions
Topic: Article on de-gendering fashion
Replies: 19
Views: 1276

Re: Article on de-gendering fashion

Not in any way an expert, but I believe that gendering clothing has been a tendency in non -Western cultures. Thinking back to my youth, Western culture tried to differentiate gender appearance in several different ways. The starkest difference being the expectation that males always wear trousers,...
by steamman
Mon Nov 17, 2025 3:26 pm
Forum: Freestyle Fashions
Topic: Article on de-gendering fashion
Replies: 19
Views: 1276

Article on de-gendering fashion

This is an interesting article; https://discoapocalypse.co/de-gendering-fashion The author is making the general point that binning the gender binary in fashion would benefit everyone. I agree, and it’s not about men in skirts per se (even though it’s a consequence), it’s about freedom for everyone ...
by steamman
Mon Nov 10, 2025 7:14 pm
Forum: Advocacy & Mens Skirts In the News
Topic: Rewriting the rules for menswear – new wearable skirts for men
Replies: 72
Views: 4634

Re: Rewriting the rules for menswear – new wearable skirts for men

It’s odd that a group that likes to break the rules also likes to lay them down. TB, by "rules" , what exactly do you mean? My thoughts about menswear are very simple. There should be no rules for anyone, just dress as you please and if it offends anyone's sense of propriety, so be it. Ma...
by steamman
Mon Nov 10, 2025 6:18 pm
Forum: Freestyle Fashions
Topic: Good experience
Replies: 6
Views: 678

Good experience

I had some free time today, so for fun I decided to go to the mall to try on some skirts and dresses. I decided to try a double denim look, denim maxi pencil skirt and a denim jacket. Finished with my favourite, super comfy (and cheap!) 5” block heel ankle boots. Walking through the mall was fabulou...
by steamman
Fri Nov 07, 2025 7:41 pm
Forum: Freestyle Fashions
Topic: Kieran’s River Island Fitting Room Experience
Replies: 5
Views: 578

Re: Kieran’s River Island Fitting Room Experience

If you don’t get a positive response from them, vote with your feet. That’s what people need to do. I don’t shop at river island and I’ve become quite a fan of AllSaints lately.l although I appreciate they are a bit more expensive than river island. My local shop is nicely laid out and they don’t ha...
by steamman
Sat Nov 01, 2025 11:32 am
Forum: Advocacy & Mens Skirts In the News
Topic: Rewriting the rules for menswear – new wearable skirts for men
Replies: 72
Views: 4634

Re: Rewriting the rules for menswear – new wearable skirts for men

We need to stop worrying about appearing masculine and just be true to ourselves. In this thread, the word “masculine” has appeared multiple times and in my opinion, it is the reason that men cannot escape the ManBox. They are so worried about appearing masculine that there is no hope for them to e...
by steamman
Fri Oct 10, 2025 3:41 pm
Forum: Advocacy & Mens Skirts In the News
Topic: Genderless fashion article
Replies: 6
Views: 928

Genderless fashion article

I’ve been waiting to see something like this for a while: https://www.voguearabia.com/article/genderless-fashion-is-the-future-and-its-already-here The real revolution isn’t men in skirts, it’s binning the gender binary all together. The fashion world has been caught out here, they are already behin...
by steamman
Sat Oct 04, 2025 10:19 am
Forum: Advocacy & Mens Skirts In the News
Topic: Eurostar Uniform Skirts Now Unisex
Replies: 45
Views: 3659

Re: Eurostar Uniform Skirts Now Unisex

And what’s depressing is that the right wing press still conflate sex and gender. Gender is nothing but a social construct, invented by humans. It doesn’t exist but it’s caused a multitude of problems in terms of how men and women are supposed to behave and present themselves. I never agreed to the ...