jamie001 wrote: ↑Sun Jun 11, 2023 12:43 am
Stu wrote: ↑Sat Jun 10, 2023 4:16 pm
I am rather irritated that every time somebody mentions skirts for men, the trans and LGBT lobbies are brought up as though there is some connection. Every time a man in a skirt is associated with these, men and boys who are not gay or trans will be deterred from trying a skirt.
MIS is, in my view, is a men's rights issue - not a trans rights or gay rights issue.
You don't have to be trans to wear skirts, just gender nonconforming.
Stu, that was my thoughts exactly, adding the gay, trans, pride element will kill a potentially open minded male from trying a skirt possibly. Articles like that ultimately hurt mis more than help.
I don't want to be perceived as being any of the above.
I drastically cut back on my public skirt wearing during June just so I'm less likely to be seen as coming out.
Jamie001, show me a gender non-conforming woman.
Ok yes they do exist, but a vast majority are not even noticed. They are just seen as women with short hair and in blue jeans. Tattoos, flannel shirts, etc, add what ever else you want, they are still seen as women.
I have mentioned this someplace else in another thread here at the Cafe
There is a woman "Jane" (Name changed to protect the innocent) in our church that has short hair, always wears jeans, doesn't, wear makeup, don't carry a purse.
I think I have only seen her in a dress two times in the last 12 years. Even on mother's day and Easter she is usually sporting Jeans.
To everyone she's just "Jane" nothing controversial. She isn't remotely considered gender non conforming.
"Jane" just likes jeans and short hair.
As a MIS I/we want the same courtesy
To just be, Tom, Dick, Harry, Fred, Sam, James, Joe, Allen.
Sometimes he prefers to wear a skirt.
just like "Jane" she prefers wearing jeans.
Just a additional little side light tonight.
My wife is wearing dark blue jeans and a camouflage tee shirt. ....
At least one of us is dressing the way they totally want to.
I guess I shouldn't totally complain, at least I'm wearing my shortalls that I mentioned in another thread as being my #2 favorite item, second to skirts. What's funny is the shortalls are starting to become my identity.
I had a friend of mine comment that he saw someone in Red white and blue patriotic bib cover alls, and instantly thought of me.
What's funnier I have been contemplating / debating, tie dyeing a pair of my white shortalls red white and blue. I just haven't had the time to round up the necessary supplies to do it. Now it's almost like I have to do it so I don't disappoint.