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Indeed, it is not.crfriend wrote: ↑Fri Nov 29, 2019 3:16 pmMy notion of "observable and demonstrable harm" was specifically aimed at a harmless behaviour that will have no negative consequence for a partner, e.g. in this case skirt-wearing by the guy. That this may cause pain for the female partner is honest enough, and we need to be sensitive to that, but it's not a reason for the woman to mentally abuse the man over the matter.
I conjure an image of Daryl walking down the street, whistling a tune in his skirt. He passes a house and right as he walks by the whole side of the building crumbles to the ground revealing a man dressed as Ronald McDonald rolling around in feces.Daryl wrote: ↑Sat Nov 30, 2019 5:47 am Now if I found out about it by pure chance, like the side fell off his building while I was walking by and there he was, I'd think "he's entitled to be weird" and let it go, but honestly I can't be sure that it wouldn't subconsciously colour my perceptions a little.
Yup, either "carry on" or "as you were". No sense in dallying to talk about the amazingly unusualy event we'd just witnessed; none at all.moonshadow wrote: ↑Sat Nov 30, 2019 1:59 pm Daryl vexes over what he is witnessing, looks back up at the clown...
"Carry on...."
Two restaurants are now ruined...
There, fixed it for you.moonshadow wrote: ↑Fri Nov 29, 2019 5:51 pmApparently most men are terrifed of their wives... f--- that. You should never live in fear of someone who supposedly loves you... that's not a marriage, that'sa religionabuse.
I wore a Utilikilt around my (now) wife shortly after our dating got serious. She's fine with most of my weirdness...Daryl wrote: ↑Sat Nov 30, 2019 5:47 am You and I are both blessed with great wives. Mine is upfront with me when I go outside of her comfort zone. I never consider it "controlling" even though I am sure that by informing me of her discomfort she expects me to at least take her feelings into account in some way. It's always when I myself feel I am pressing the limits anyway.
The men I feel sorry for are the ones for whom any escape from the man-box will come as a total surpriseto their spouse. My wife knew from the beginning that I was experimental in every way, and we had a truly diverse group of common acquaintances. My only advice is to not get married or have children if you have kept secrets (usually to enhance your dating/mating prospects). Start out with a lie and the rewards are painful. No amount of "rights" logic can get around that.
I'm not sure about that. https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Bi ... -The-Lord/Dust wrote: ↑Mon Dec 09, 2019 9:16 pmThere, fixed it for you.moonshadow wrote: ↑Fri Nov 29, 2019 5:51 pmApparently most men are terrifed of their wives... f--- that. You should never live in fear of someone who supposedly loves you... that's not a marriage, that'sa religionabuse.
That, and "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned."skirtyscot wrote: ↑Mon Dec 09, 2019 10:52 pmI'm not sure about that. https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Bi ... -The-Lord/
Umm... Don't date/marry anyone with a god complex?skirtyscot wrote: ↑Mon Dec 09, 2019 10:52 pmI'm not sure about that. https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Bi ... -The-Lord/Dust wrote: ↑Mon Dec 09, 2019 9:16 pmThere, fixed it for you.moonshadow wrote: ↑Fri Nov 29, 2019 5:51 pmApparently most men are terrifed of their wives... f--- that. You should never live in fear of someone who supposedly loves you... that's not a marriage, that'sa religionabuse.
Exactly. A relationship built around deception is doomed.Dust wrote: Lies and secrets always come back to cause problems. It may take a long time, but eventually it will.