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Re: Articles about books about gender non-conforming childre
Posted: Thu May 08, 2014 10:02 pm
by Caultron
I have no doubt that this Romeo Clarke from Rugby likes to wear dresses.
But for any 5-year-old to have 100 outfits -- be they skirts, dresses, pants, shorts, or anything else --does seem a bit compulsive on the part of the mother.
Re: Articles about books about gender non-conforming childre
Posted: Thu May 08, 2014 11:40 pm
by Tor
Caultron wrote:But for any 5-year-old to have 100 outfits -- be they skirts, dresses, pants, shorts, or anything else --does seem a bit compulsive on the part of the mother.
That really depends on how you count it. 100 distinct complete outfits without repetition of individual articles (except perhaps jewelry or similar)? Yeah, I'll agree. A total of 100 combined dresses, skirts, tops, trousers, jackets, etc.? Probably a little high at his age, I'll grant, but not outlandish. I'm probably close to achieving the latter myself, though to be fair that's quite a few years in the collecting since I stopped changing sizes. I'll grant that the wording of the article does tend to suggest the former, though.
Re: Articles about books about gender non-conforming childre
Posted: Fri May 09, 2014 12:50 am
by pleated
Also being discussed at the link below, and the comments are very supportive-
http://www.mommyish.com/2014/05/08/five ... g-dresses/
His father is also supportive-
"His father, who is in construction, has no problem with him wearing the dress: “I don’t care if he wears the dress. He can be whatever he wants to be.”
Re: Articles about books about gender non-conforming childre
Posted: Fri May 09, 2014 4:14 am
by partlyscot
pleated wrote:
Also being discussed at the link below, and the comments are very supportive-
Very much so, I like the little aside about how the priests are the only males allowed dresses. Sorry, robes.
Re: Articles about books about gender non-conforming childre
Posted: Fri May 09, 2014 8:35 am
by ethelthefrog
Oh good grief.
Annoyingly, the Equality Act 2010
should protect him, but it doesn't. It will protect someone who has stated a desire to undergo gender transition (there in no age limit, and there is no stipulation that the person concerned needs to have or plan any medical interventions), but it simply does not cover a boy who is happy being a boy who wants to wear a dress.
And this nursery setting really needs to look at
GIRES.
Re: Articles about books about gender non-conforming childre
Posted: Fri May 09, 2014 8:41 am
by ethelthefrog
Yahoo news has another article on the same story. The last sentence is the kicker:
Buzz Children's Club seeks to follow our usual safeguarding guidelines and we did so in this case in order to avoid any confusion or possible conflict or teasing from other children.
Because we all know that blaming the victim for making other people tease him is the best way to deal with any situation like that.
*headdesk*