Grok wrote:I know this is getting way off topic, but there are both men and women who are rejected by mistake-individuals who are Diamonds In The Rough. Individuals who are who have a lot to offer, but are quickly ruled out because they don't seem to fit the images of Prince or Beauty Queen.
I refuse to feel even the slightest of pity for those who hold out for virtual impossibilities. They deserve the disappointment that they're setting themselves up for, pure and simple.
If we accept the common wisdom that the human species is fallible, then it follows by extension that none of us are perfect -- heck, some of us are pretty badly flawed in many ways but we still manage to get through our lives sometimes quite successfully. We need to learn to accept that we are who we are, and no matter how hard we may strive we will
never be
perfect, either to ourselves or to those around us. This does not mean that we should not try, but rather that we should take care that the occasional failure doesn't send us down a rat-hole.
I actually have little doubt that if I was single and unattached I would have little trouble in finding somebody, and before somebody makes that statement into something it's not I'll state that I am very happy indeed precisely where I am at the moment. Another thing to keep in mind in this regard: approach everything with as open a mind as possible; a closed mind is a closed door.