Here are two quotes I think are relevant to us.
“Usually I wouldn’t address stuff like this, but I feel like it as a conversation is bigger than me. I’m not gay, but I think the culture of trying to ‘find’ some kind of hidden trait or behavior that a closed person ‘let slip’ is very dangerous,” he wrote. “Overanalyzing someone’s behavior in an attempt to ‘catch’ them directly contributes to the anxiety a lot of queer and queer-questioning people feel when they fear living in their truth.”
Love the second quote the best.“It also reinforces an archetype many straight men have to live under that is often times unrealistic, less free and limits individual expression.”
Here’s the link.
https://www.cnn.com/2023/06/05/entertai ... index.html