Re: Mum lets boy wear dresses and skirts
Posted: Fri Jun 16, 2017 9:27 pm
It sounds as a complex situation that you hide a part of your personality. Yes it's problem that have a lot of us. You won't lost your relationship. And you want to be who you are.mishawakaskirt wrote:Every case is unique. I can speak from my life.
When I was 6 or 7 I wanted a tutu in the worst way.
Eventually I got up enough nerve to ask my mom. And was shot down.
I never did get that tutu, but when I did get old enough to drive. I did go skirt shopping.
I often wonder how my life might have been if my mom had said " ok what color?"
The most flustrating part out of all this is having to hide a part of my personality from first my mom, and now my wife. Why can't we be comfortable with The people we are closest too?
Mishawakakilt
As I speak to myself. I can walk everywhere in my favorite clothes, the skirt. And I don't really care what people think or what they say to me. If they laugh, they laugh. If there is no reaction, then there is no reaction. It is as it is. And I feel comfortable and I am happy. But at home my wife makes a lot times problems of my clothes. And when she doesn't make troubles, then I feel my not always comfortable to her too. Only close people who knows my preference I can be who I am. And that feels okay. But I don't have a secret to here. And that feels that I can hope of maybe she will accept it once. But it is a small hope.
But not telling feels not as uncomfortable as well very unsafe. And there's no hope. And that is what I do not want.