Ralph wrote: But all it takes is one tragic incident by a dangerous predator to spoil it for everyone.
And this is a direction of law making that I do not support...
It reminds me of being back in school, having a couple of rowdy kids that can't keep their mouth shut and suddenly the whole class has silent lunch.
We are a society that is increasingly punishing the innocent for the crimes of the guilty. The conservatives are all about punishing
all transgender people for the actions of a few, yet when it comes to taking their guns for the actions of a solitary shooter they are all up in arms (pun intended). To use another example, the banning of sugary sodas is often criticized by conservative groups, but why? Because more and more people can't control themselves. Which is why I stand by my remark about what it all "boils down" to. This is a matter of pro right puritan conservative politics, and they are playing whatever card they can to advance their agenda, and sleep comfortably at night knowing everyone is white, protestant, and that the world is still flat. Which brings me to "what about the children?"
Okay, what I'm about to say I'm certain is going to get me in trouble, possibly flared, and will be wildly unpopular, but it's my take on it, and seems to be supported by the actual behavior of the human species....
Nobody gives a crap about children. If they did, then we wouldn't be loosing so many to starvation, disease, etc. Everyone cares about
their children, but generally nobody else's. I watched a social experiment once where a well dressed child was panhandling for money and generally had the community eating out of her hand. Then they staged a poor homeless looking child (both were girls) to do the same thing, and basically the experiment had to be called off because the community was being so mean to her, shooing her away, yelling obscenities, etc. Most people who do do good deeds only do it for the publicity and to be hailed a hero. Lets be realistic, if it weren't for ego stroking, we'd all be cold to one another... children included. Am I being cynical? Probably, but I just see the human race as the bunch of self serving savages that we are. You let the bottom fall out of modern society, I'm talking total anarchy world wide, an Apocalypse of biblical proportion, and you'll see grown adults from all walks of life from the riff raff to the preachers stealing food from children, raping and pillaging as they go along.
As a further indication of the lack of caring for actual children and how it's simply a card being played by conservatives, I present the fact that nobody seems to care about little boys peeing along side of passable transgender women. It is argued that dad can enter the room and stand guard, however what if dad isn't available? What if he's shopping with mom today? Further, if all bathrooms were unisex then mom and/or dad could accompany any child of any sex to the restroom to make sure things stay civil.
It all just makes just too much sense to ignore. And so again, I submit that this is just puritan politics trying to control everyone.
But if we start making frivolous regulations based on what someone "might" do, then we need to stop issuing drivers licenses (how many die in car crashes?). We need to enforce strict diets, control what everyone eats (how many die from obesity?) We need to ban ALL GUNS (not that I support that, but you can't have it both ways, and that's all I'm saying), ban anything that may be used as a weapon. Basically, when we're born, we all need to be placed immediately into padded prison cells for life so there is ZERO chance of us harming anyone.
Extreme? Of course! But it's a slippery slope. When we start penalizing the general populace based on what "someone might do", then where do we draw the line?
And so... we enact laws rooted in fear. And that's NO way to run a free society.