And the last hoop in that obstacle course typically finds the man single, alone, paying child support, living with his mother, or worse... in jail.Grok wrote:The first hoop? A man should appear to conform to traditional masculinity.
If you're looking for a woman, and the woman you find insist you behave in the "stereotypical American alpha masculine" manner, best to find yourself another woman... preferably one who has some depth and is not a bimbo.
If you're already married to a woman who wants the type of man I mentioned above, then I don't know what to tell you. It really comes down to two choices, stand up for yourself, or yield to her authority.
But make no mistake, in that case, you're the one granting her the authority. It's a dirty rotten double standard, and it needs to be called out. Or else she needs to be the typical 1950's housewife... as Carl says "full stop"
These girls can't have it both ways. Fair is fair and equal is equal.... nuff said.
The feminist say they (women) are not on this planet serve our egos. I agree with this... however the same goes for women. Men are not on this planet to serve women's egos either.
And that's really what it boils down to, she's embarrassed to be seen with you... tell her to get over it, or by God go puritan on her ass.