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I had two recent outings in skirts that were notably different. On the first outing, I wore a red skirt that hung to just below my knees with a striped top. I thought it was a nice outfit. I felt like it drew a lot of attention from people. By that, I mean, a lot of people looked at me in very obvious ways. On the second outing, I wore a gray, pencil skirt that hung to just above my knees. I noticed very few looks. Most people did not look at me in a way similar to when I am out in shorts or any other menswear. I think the darker color of the gray skirt (and perhaps the lack of being flowy) made it not stand out. It was like being invisible in public while wearing a skirt.
So, if you are nervous about going out in public, or if you are going out with your spouse for the first time and she is nervous, I say: strongly consider wearing a dark gray knee-length pencil skirt.
So, if you are nervous about going out in public, or if you are going out with your spouse for the first time and she is nervous, I say: strongly consider wearing a dark gray knee-length pencil skirt.
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Pencil skirts (esp. Denim) are my go-to item for invisibility. I think the Pencil cut is very masculine as well, hence no looks. Male colours are naturally dark, grey, black, navy, though in summer it's nice to have something bright to wearjjjjohanne wrote:I had two recent outings in skirts that were notably different. On the first outing, I wore a red skirt that hung to just below my knees with a striped top. I thought it was a nice outfit. I felt like it drew a lot of attention from people. By that, I mean, a lot of people looked at me in very obvious ways. On the second outing, I wore a gray, pencil skirt that hung to just above my knees. I noticed very few looks. Most people did not look at me in a way similar to when I am out in shorts or any other menswear. I think the darker color of the gray skirt (and perhaps the lack of being flowy) made it not stand out. It was like being invisible in public while wearing a skirt.
So, if you are nervous about going out in public, or if you are going out with your spouse for the first time and she is nervous, I say: strongly consider wearing a dark gray knee-length pencil skirt.
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Here are a few thoughts on the above observations.
Brilliant colours certainly draw the eye when worn by men -- precisely because so few men wear such hues in any sort of quantity. Couple the colour with the vastly larger (compared to trousers) surface area of a skirt and the net effect is to attract even more attention. Bright shades -- especially highly saturated ones -- will draw the most attention, less saturated ones (pastels) will draw less; less fabric (less fabric, less flare) draws less attention that more flare, which brings us to this: A "pencil skirt" will draw less attention than an A-line skirt because the skirt fits closer to the body and, thus, will appear less "different" than the expected trousers.
What people pick up on is difference from what's expected - this is why denim is essentially invisible today because it has become part of the background-radiation. Hence a denim pencil skirt will likely go unnoticed at a fast glance as that's all anybody usually gets unless one really stands out from the crowd. A full denim A-line skirt might gather a second glance or two but will quickly fade into the background-radiation as "normal". However, something large and brightly coloured is going to attract the eye simply because it's different and unexpected.
Pick your mode: if you're unsure, pick denim and try to blend in; if adventurous or in a very buoyant mood, go bright. The options in skirts are myriad more flexible than those for trousers. Part of the fun is trying to decide what to do (and whose head to fiddle with)! Enjoy it!
Brilliant colours certainly draw the eye when worn by men -- precisely because so few men wear such hues in any sort of quantity. Couple the colour with the vastly larger (compared to trousers) surface area of a skirt and the net effect is to attract even more attention. Bright shades -- especially highly saturated ones -- will draw the most attention, less saturated ones (pastels) will draw less; less fabric (less fabric, less flare) draws less attention that more flare, which brings us to this: A "pencil skirt" will draw less attention than an A-line skirt because the skirt fits closer to the body and, thus, will appear less "different" than the expected trousers.
What people pick up on is difference from what's expected - this is why denim is essentially invisible today because it has become part of the background-radiation. Hence a denim pencil skirt will likely go unnoticed at a fast glance as that's all anybody usually gets unless one really stands out from the crowd. A full denim A-line skirt might gather a second glance or two but will quickly fade into the background-radiation as "normal". However, something large and brightly coloured is going to attract the eye simply because it's different and unexpected.
Pick your mode: if you're unsure, pick denim and try to blend in; if adventurous or in a very buoyant mood, go bright. The options in skirts are myriad more flexible than those for trousers. Part of the fun is trying to decide what to do (and whose head to fiddle with)! Enjoy it!
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There is a biological attraction to red colors. It’s why stop signs are red
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I wear bright colours, not because I want to be noticed but because I have always liked bright colours. Blue, red, purple and yellow are my favourites. But yes, bright colours on a man are rare and even rarer in the stores.
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I love wearing my red cord mini. Everyone notices it, so I have to be feeling confident. It's for winter, with tights, so I'm having a break from it right now. In the meantime I will have to make do with green and whatever colour oldsalt1 wants us to wear next month!
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Red will certainly attract the attention! I have a few red skirts myself...
I think my favorite look was this one: (click for link)
And yes... I literally... stopped traffic....
I think my favorite look was this one: (click for link)
And yes... I literally... stopped traffic....
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I am wearing my Argyle Kilt Jacket as a male top. My latest wear is what I call a Cornish Sulu. No one has ever seen a Figian Sulu.
To me this "Cornish" garment looks suspiciously like a black male pencil skirt with the hem just below the knee and three box pleats in the rear hem
for ease of movement......worn with a soft leather drovers sporran on a heavy male waist belt.
When I am dressing I feel less conspicuous in black with a sporran to confuse the perception of what people are seeing.
I feel that people have more important issues in their lives than looking at my clothes. It is rather like going to a Highland gathering
and getting bored looking at Kilts.....The Human Mind will not store the images of say 500 Kilts and switches off.....interesting
.............weeladdie.............
To me this "Cornish" garment looks suspiciously like a black male pencil skirt with the hem just below the knee and three box pleats in the rear hem
for ease of movement......worn with a soft leather drovers sporran on a heavy male waist belt.
When I am dressing I feel less conspicuous in black with a sporran to confuse the perception of what people are seeing.
I feel that people have more important issues in their lives than looking at my clothes. It is rather like going to a Highland gathering
and getting bored looking at Kilts.....The Human Mind will not store the images of say 500 Kilts and switches off.....interesting
.............weeladdie.............
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Some years ago a friend and I were discussing the purchase of an original black Cornish Kilt.....I gave up the idea as the garment lacked an accurate
pedigree of authenticity.........my friend gave up on the idea as his wife suggested the black Kilt looked like part of her school uniform.
The garment would have been the same for both of us , but the perception was different........
I have never seen on one of these garments in the wild..........Saw a gentleman an a smart tweed traditional Scottish Kilt.....For me
that garment did stand out as it attracted my curiosity.............weeladdie
pedigree of authenticity.........my friend gave up on the idea as his wife suggested the black Kilt looked like part of her school uniform.
The garment would have been the same for both of us , but the perception was different........
I have never seen on one of these garments in the wild..........Saw a gentleman an a smart tweed traditional Scottish Kilt.....For me
that garment did stand out as it attracted my curiosity.............weeladdie
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About 4-5 years ago I went to a number of Scottish or Caledonian festivals here in Arizona (and yes, they do have them, and way more than 4-5 people attend), and seeing so many men in kilts was, in fact, a bit boring.weeladdie18 wrote:...I feel that people have more important issues in their lives than looking at my clothes. It is rather like going to a Highland gathering and getting bored looking at Kilts.....The Human Mind will not store the images of say 500 Kilts and switches off...
But it was refreshing to know there were so many men who, given the correct stimuli, would go unbufurcated.
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All of my skirts are denim, khaki, gray. They are all about an inch above me knees, therefore they blend in like shorts. I where them in public and on trails and national parks. In the past five years I have only been noticed twice and the comments have been positive.
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On holiday in the south of France, last night I went out with my wife to dinner with dancing afterwards at a seaside restaurant. It was time to make my first outing in this:
https://www.hiatus-shop.com/en/every-me ... rutus.html
I was expecting that I might have to explain to someone that it was actually a French kilt and therefore legit., but no-one seemed to notice. It's really a skirt, though the pleats at the front may make people assume it's a pair of shorts; and, as others have said above, the black may have made it invisible. Also, the various news stories from France last summer about bus drivers and others wearing skirts to cope with the heat may have helped to normalize them.
Incidentally, this skirt is light and very pleasant to wear, and really well made. I bought mine online in a sale, so it wasn't quite as expensive as it looks. The one comment I did receive was from my wife, who pointed out that she was wearing the trousers....
https://www.hiatus-shop.com/en/every-me ... rutus.html
I was expecting that I might have to explain to someone that it was actually a French kilt and therefore legit., but no-one seemed to notice. It's really a skirt, though the pleats at the front may make people assume it's a pair of shorts; and, as others have said above, the black may have made it invisible. Also, the various news stories from France last summer about bus drivers and others wearing skirts to cope with the heat may have helped to normalize them.
Incidentally, this skirt is light and very pleasant to wear, and really well made. I bought mine online in a sale, so it wasn't quite as expensive as it looks. The one comment I did receive was from my wife, who pointed out that she was wearing the trousers....
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Geron that one has captured my eye for some time now. Did you find the sizing to be accurate?
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Just don't wear it in Pamplona around early July.moonshadow wrote:Red will certainly attract the attention! I have a few red skirts myself...
I think my favorite look was this one: (click for link)
And yes... I literally... stopped traffic....
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Just don't wear it in Pamplona around early July.[/quote]
You must elaborate on this, please.
Just don't wear it in Pamplona around early July.[/quote]
You must elaborate on this, please.