TomH wrote:Irishguy wrote: maybe with time it will be more accepted for guys to cross that gender divide,
I almost didn't say this because it sort of seems we're picking on you, but we do need to be aware of what we say at times, so I'm forced to make note of what I see. Wearing a skirt or dress does not change one's gender.......... Garment's cover our equipment/gender, no change needed...
I don't want to cross the gender divide. I'm perfectly happy with my gender, just not so much with the easy choice of today's garment that society has put upon us. I just want to wear what's comfortable for me without question of motives.
Okay, that's my 2 cents for the moment.
Tom
Hi Tom, I was not inferring that guys should dress as girls but that we would be allowed the same clothing rights as females, for example its cute when my older sister wore my dads shirts or his sweater, But god forbit I might wear something of my mothers or my sisters.
However when it suited everyone it was quite all right to sick me in a kilt.
Women can dress how they want and act how they want, its ok for a woman to act butch but for a guy to act femme is a different matter.
I was not suggesting wearing a skirt or dress should change anyones gender, If you take a pair of denim jeans or a denim skirt both are the same denim cloth but cut and sewn differenly now cut it and sew it slightly differently and suddenly you have a denim kilt, its still cloth at the end of the day, does it change your gender only if your want to do that. Western society is hung up on clothes, go to other countries in the world and skirt like garments are quite normal for guys.
So when i refere to the gender devide its the different rules for both genders.
A number of years ago women fought to wear trousers, now they can !.
Trousers were designed years ago to allow horseback riding and things like that, Now we drive cars, work in offices and where I belive a skirt is totally unsuitable for certain things for a lot of day to day jobs there would be nothing wrong with a skirt regardless of gender.
Yes if your are welding or climbing trousers do have advantages, But if you sit behind a desk all day there is nothing wrong with a skirt.
i am quite happy being male, but i dont want to be a crossdresser either, What i do want is if i decide to wear a skirt, dress, kilt for whatever reason that it is ok in peoples mind rather than being a object of mockery.
But I think the devide or maybe a better word would be Line is closing, and in time i think skirts will be accepted.
I guess i am lucky that I was exposed to skirt like garments as a kid and teens, at first I actually did not like it and was somewhat horrified, and had all the toughts what would my friends thing and so on, Then suddenly you are wearing the garment and at first you are uneasy but you get on with it and then in time its just another part of your clothes, And thats all they are to cover and protect the body.
I think we need more males to experience that or at least people to pave the way to get the whole concept accepted, In ways its very regional what would be fine in certain countries would not be accepted in others.
I suppose what i am trying to say live and let live, be happy be comfortable.