Indeed. That stated tactic is just one of the was that men self-police and hold all possible progress back. It needs to stop. Sadly, humiliation is an extremely effective form of control over people.Myopic Bookworm wrote: ↑Tue May 14, 2024 10:38 amMen aren't boring: they're scared of being thought effeminate or gay.
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- Tue May 14, 2024 12:27 pm
- Forum: Freestyle Fashions
- Topic: Trousers, Women have more....
- Replies: 5
- Views: 36
Re: Trousers, Women have more....
- Tue May 14, 2024 12:19 pm
- Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
- Topic: Dr Who
- Replies: 34
- Views: 1175
Re: Dr Who
Shouting or using capitals is unproductive and alienates those who are on your.side. Then why did you stop just one iota away from invoking Deuteronomy on us? You might as well have, because you used all the coded language therein that is only used to bash men and never even so much as scold women....
- Mon May 13, 2024 3:37 pm
- Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
- Topic: Dr Who
- Replies: 34
- Views: 1175
Re: Dr Who
Right there we see the dragon we're trying to slay. Who else sees it?Barleymower wrote: ↑Mon May 13, 2024 3:17 pmThe question in my mind has nothing to do with the basis of the show. It had everything to do with attitudes to men and specifically men that wear women's clothes.
- Sun May 12, 2024 11:49 pm
- Forum: In the News / Advocacy
- Topic: Man in skirt wins Eurovision
- Replies: 24
- Views: 399
Re: Man in skirt wins Eurovision
I think I'm qualified to address Spiriou's comment as I've been in both situations. The first one was where the desire to wear skirts finally "caught up with me" after years and I gave it a try, much to the surprise of my (now) late ex-. The net result of that, whilst her mind was still in...
- Sun May 12, 2024 4:13 pm
- Forum: In the News / Advocacy
- Topic: Man in skirt wins Eurovision
- Replies: 24
- Views: 399
Re: Man in skirt wins Eurovision
If you find the ManBox constraining, then there are two options: (1) try to make the box bigger; (2) step outside the box. Which you choose is up to you: clearly a lot of people here are much happier with option (1). It might be better if you didn't have to choose - if it was generally accepted tha...
- Sun May 12, 2024 12:25 pm
- Forum: In the News / Advocacy
- Topic: Man in skirt wins Eurovision
- Replies: 24
- Views: 399
Re: Man in skirt wins Eurovision
But. He identifies as non binary, confirming yet one more time that skirts are not for straight hetero guys. Am I wrong in thinking that the skirt is becoming a non-binary flag? How many of the men at the Met Gala wearing skirts were non-binary, is that a bad thing? I'm afraid this is really becomi...
- Sun May 12, 2024 12:02 am
- Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
- Topic: Hypothethical Question
- Replies: 124
- Views: 2158
Re: Hypothethical Question
Well, that's likely the end of this thread.
- Sat May 11, 2024 11:47 pm
- Forum: In the News / Advocacy
- Topic: Dua Lipa’s SNL performance featuring skirted male dancers
- Replies: 49
- Views: 1031
Re: Dua Lipa’s SNL performance featuring skirted male dancers
Over the 60+ years of his life, Carl has been through a lot, much of it involving his advocacy for male fashion freedom. You need to see things from his perspective to understand why his tone is the way it is. Indeed, I do not view the world through the same lenses as one who is immersed in it. I e...
- Fri May 10, 2024 10:32 pm
- Forum: In the News / Advocacy
- Topic: Dua Lipa’s SNL performance featuring skirted male dancers
- Replies: 49
- Views: 1031
Re: Dua Lipa’s SNL performance featuring skirted male dancers
Would you agree automakers would fight in getting their vehicle displayed in that video with a bikini-clad, curvaceous woman? This woman can help in selling their vehicle to her followers. Fans will buy products seen in videos. They want to own what she owns. 'Twas already done in the era of "...
- Fri May 10, 2024 3:10 pm
- Forum: In the News / Advocacy
- Topic: Dua Lipa’s SNL performance featuring skirted male dancers
- Replies: 49
- Views: 1031
Re: Dua Lipa’s SNL performance featuring skirted male dancers
Today we still have men with long hair that was started with the Beatles. Boys went out and started wearing their hair like the Beatles and longer. Dua Lipa influence on teens may last way longer than you think. We still have Elvis Presly impersonators still influencing. Elvis "left the buildi...
- Fri May 10, 2024 1:30 pm
- Forum: In the News / Advocacy
- Topic: Dua Lipa’s SNL performance featuring skirted male dancers
- Replies: 49
- Views: 1031
Re: Dua Lipa’s SNL performance featuring skirted male dancers
Dua Lipa going to have an effect on teens by having men dancing skirts. What is debatable is the number of teens that it is effecting. And that effect will disappear immediately once Dua Lipa rejoins obscurity. Any measurable "change" will be fleeting at best. Specifically, if the girls s...
- Fri May 10, 2024 12:09 pm
- Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
- Topic: Men's? Unisex? Or Women's?
- Replies: 48
- Views: 2492
Re: Men's? Unisex? Or Women's?
It's worth recalling that "unisex" was coded term in the late 1960s when women were in the process of butching up their hairstyles and were starting to wear men's styles -- hence the unfortunate term. Today, "unisex" should be regarded as a clarion call that men are about to lose...
- Thu May 09, 2024 12:36 am
- Forum: In the News / Advocacy
- Topic: Dua Lipa’s SNL performance featuring skirted male dancers
- Replies: 49
- Views: 1031
Re: Dua Lipa’s SNL performance featuring skirted male dancers
One thing to ponder, here, is: " How are we going about breaking away from this outdated, limiting mindset? " Will this even be answered or addressed in either of our lifetimes? My guess, and in the context of how toxic the world has gotten as a whole, is that it will not be addressed, ne...
- Thu May 09, 2024 12:25 am
- Forum: In the News / Advocacy
- Topic: Dua Lipa’s SNL performance featuring skirted male dancers
- Replies: 49
- Views: 1031
- Wed May 08, 2024 10:57 pm
- Forum: Skirts and Kilts for Men
- Topic: Hypothethical Question
- Replies: 124
- Views: 2158